Traditional kite materials are relatively simple, but today's kite materials are extremely luxurious and complex. Therefore, kites nowadays have a strong fashion ornamentality; Therefore, kites are now more popular and sought after by young people.
No matter how gorgeous the kite is today, it must keep the kite flyer firmly in his own hands. Moreover, the string of the kite can neither be too thick nor too thin, so that the kite can withstand the severe test of the wind; Moreover, the kite flyer should neither pull the kite string too tightly nor let the kite string be too loose. Only with a degree of relaxation can the kite fly freely in the sky, and be full of poetic beauty under the blue sky and white clouds; Only with a moderate degree of relaxation can the kite not be blown by the strong wind on the wires and branches, and avoid damage to the kite.
In fact, there are similarities between parenting and kite flying. Whether it is parents or grandparents, grandparents and grandmothers, they must form a consensus when raising children, and always grasp the scale and proportion of the combination of leniency and strictness, so that children can grow up healthily. If someone is too pampered and doted, it will make the opposite, let the child lose the correct guidance, gradually disobey the discipline, and produce a bad habit of doing whatever he wants, and eventually lead to the wrong path.
Only by forming a combination of leniency and severity in science education and training methods can children know how to be upright, do things seriously, and have the consciousness and resistance to self-control bad habits, and then let children be able to distinguish between truth and falsehood, good and bad; Only by improving children's ability to discern can they distinguish between right and wrong and not lose their way forward.
Moreover, it is necessary for children to understand what is the external beauty and essential beauty of things. Only when children know how to strictly distinguish between truth and falsehood in learning and social practice, can children not go astray; Only by understanding the children and moving them with affection can the children learn to be real people in words and deeds, and have the way of being kind to others, rather than being arrogant and having no one in their eyes.
Only by letting children's words and deeds be inevitably restrained and correctly controlled, can children not have willful and arrogant and domineering ideologies, and will they not be above the laws of the country; Only by letting children know what is high and thick can they truly have the courage to assume social responsibilities and obligations, rather than getting rid of responsibilities and obligations; Only by letting children understand what freedom is and why they should fear the legal authority of the country, will they not be overbearing when they grow up and think that they are the best in the world.
However, the things that should be let go, parents, grandfathers, grandmothers, and grandfathers and grandmothers cannot be overstepped. We must let go and let the children go through the wind and rain and see the world. I can't let my children become weaned babies and toddlers, I can't let my children have to tell others about whatever happens, I have to go back and ask my parents what to do.
As an elder, you can only grasp the direction of your child on the right path, but not replace everything; As elders, only by giving children more trust and understanding can their wings be tougher after weathering the wind and rain and seeing the world, and they can fly to poetry and distance alone. Moreover, it is necessary to use the concept of keeping pace with the times, so that children can be bold and innovative in social practice, rather than being subject to the constraints and restrictions of their elders all the time; Also, let children have the ability to think independently and solve problems. Only by letting them grow wise in the face of setbacks can they gain the great understanding of their elders that it is better to teach people to fish than to teach them to fish. (Guo Xilin).