Rural, a place that used to be stormy and had four major pests, although the number is now decreasing, new problems are emerging one after another. RuralThe predicament is not only reflected in the ecological environment, but also in the humanitiesSociallevel of challenges. from"Four evils"In the phenomenon, we can see different levels of problems, which is thought-provoking. Let's dive into these togetherRural"Harmful spirits"and think about how to effectively deal with it and inject new strength into rural revitalization.
RuralBoys face the difficult situation of marrying a wife and starting a family, which was previously lowBride priceIt is history, and today's girls are demanding more and more from the future. forBride priceand family conditions, the boy paid a higher price. Picky girls are no longer satisfied with the basics, pursuing city houses, luxury villas, carsJewelryand other material needs. So highlyBride priceRequest, letRuralYoung men feel powerless and unbearable. They don't just have to bearMarriageResponsibility, but also to face a heavy burdenEconomyburden, which has become a problem.
(1) Boys pay a great price for their marriage
RuralThe boy seeks to be happyMarriage, saddled with a huge amountStress。Once simpleBride priceNowadays it has become complicated and expensive, making it daunting for many men. They had to work hard to earn money to meet the family's demands for the wedding. This kindMarriageThe commercialization of the original expectation of happinessMarriageBecoming full of money ordeals, men are forced to endure tremendous mental andEconomyStressforMarriagePaying a heavy price.
(2) The conditions for girls to marry are becoming more and more stringent
RuralGirls for the futureMarriageThe requirements are getting higher and higher, not only requiring the other party to have a certain material foundation, but also to meet various luxury needs. They are interested in the futurelifeFull of fantasies, expecting more material comforts andlifeGuarantee. This trend has led to:MarriageTransactionalization, the family becomes a place of exchange of money and material things, rather than a combination of love and responsibility. The pickiness of the girl also makesRuralMen are stuck and can't afford to take on the hugeMarriageBurden.
Ruralin the communityEntertainmentActivities have gradually aroused people's concerns, and gambling activities such as mahjong have become someFarmersof pastime fun. InvolvementEntertainmentOf course it helps to regulatelifeStress, but over-indulging in gambling can have many undesirable consequences. Players can get caught up in the quagmire of gamblers while pursuing thrills, which can eventually lead to family breakup and property damage.
(1) Be cautious in moderation of entertainment
InRuralRural, moderateEntertainmentHelps with reliefStress, improvelife。However, some people cannot control themselves from indulging in gambling, leading to family disharmony and even breakdown. ModerateEntertainmentIt can allow us to relax and enjoy our body and mind, but once we cross the line, it can have serious consequences. Therefore, in the engagementEntertainmentWhen doing so, it is important to be cautious and disciplined to avoid getting bogged down.
(2) Addiction to gambling is accompanied by family breakdown
SomeFarmersAddiction to gambling not only brings property damage, but also leads to family disharmony and may eventually lead to breakdown. Gambling makes people addicted to it, lose their reason and judgment, and make major mistakes. Family membersFacedEconomyDilemmas and emotional encounters, and even violent conflicts. Therefore, it is necessary to strengthen the supervision and self-restraint of gambling, maintain a rational attitude, and avoid harming the interests of yourself and your family.
InRuralSocialComparison has become a common phenomenon, and family wealth has become the standard that overrides everything. In order to show others their success and wealth, people are constantly competing for material comforts and vanity. However, the desire to compare only brings a burden to the mind and unnecessaryStressTrue happiness does not depend on material things, but on inner satisfaction and peace.
(1) Comparison pressure leads to psychological unhealth
RuralThe psychology of comparison makes people immerse themselves in the fantasy of vanity and pursue an illusory success. ComparisonStressLet them fall into the pursuit of material things and endless competition, bringing mental distress and noHealthmentality. The desire to compare can not only consume one's energy and wealth, but can also lead to a person falling into mood swings and negative emotions, effectsHealthand happiness.
(2) Material pursuits and inner peace
Comparison is only a superficial pursuit, and true happiness lies in inner peace and satisfaction. RuralPeople should adjust their values, get rid of the mentality of comparison, cherish the existing happiness, and pay attention to interpersonal relationships and inner peace. substancelifeIt is important to improve the soul, but it is more important to pay attention to the nourishment of the soul and emotional communication, and establish sincere interpersonal relationships in order to achieve true happiness.
withMobile phonesThe popularization and intellectualization,RuralregionalMobile phonesDependency is a growing problem. Mobile phonesbecame peoplelifefrom financial transactions to shoppingEntertainmentOmnipotent. Especially children are addictedMobile phones, which leads to a decline in academic performance and a stunt in mental development. Mobile phonesDependence not only affects normal study and work, but also on the family andSocialRelationships have had a negative impact and require great attention and effective intervention.
(1) The dependence on mobile phones is becoming more and more serious
RuralregionalMobile phonesThe penetration rate is getting higher and higherMobile phonesDependency has become a common phenomenon. People are used to using itMobile phonesEngage in a variety of activities, from networking and socializing to:EntertainmentShopping is all about it. Especially children are addictedMobile phones, which affects their academic performance and interpersonal skills, and brings hidden worries to their future development. Mobile phonesconvenience andEntertainmentSex makes people easily addicted to it, unable to extricate themselves, and affectslifequality and family relationships.
(2) Effective intervention to help get rid of mobile phone dependence
AgainstMobile phonesThe problem of dependency requires effective measures to intervene and guide. Educational institutions, families andSocialshould work together to strengthen theMobile phonesRely on the awareness and regulation that guides peopleFair UseMobile phonesto establish the correct awareness and habits of use. Especially againstChildren's mobile phonesParents should strengthen guardianship and guidance, cultivate children's correct concept of surfing the Internet, and guide them to actively participate in more beneficial activities to get rid of the problemMobile phonesof dependence, facilitationHealthGrow.
Ruralof"The four major evils"The problem is highlightedRuralSocialThe multiple challenges faced involve marriage and loveEntertainment, Compare andMobile phonesdependency and many other aspects. These questions reflectEconomyUnbalanced development, clash of cultural traditions,lifeThe impact of various factors such as mode change. To solve these problems, a full range of needs to be neededSocialThe joint efforts of the first should be introduced relevant policies to guideRuraldevelopment, guide people to establish correct values, cultivateHealthoflifeto inject new vitality into rural revitalization. Only by solving the problem at the source can the countryside be realizedSocialsustainable development, forFarmersCreate a better placelife