I'm here to talk about homely things
Today I brushed up on a ** about "bride price": the man gave the woman 8The bride price of 80,000 yuan, the mother and son were afraid that the other party would not bring it back, so the boy reported it, and finally the girl had to return all the bride price.
I believe everyone knows the result: in some places, the return of the "bride price" is the "withdrawal of marriage".
With the continuous improvement of the law, the "sky-high bride price" has also been legally constrained.
However, is the reason for the low marriage rate really because of the "bride price"?
One: Couples who are in free love, most of the reasons for the final separation are believed to be because of the "bride price".
It's not that he doesn't have this economic strength, and he has denied girls from the bottom of his heart, which also indirectly proves how cheap feelings are.
The most heart-wrenching thing is: I have been talking about my girlfriend for 5-6 years, and the bride price of 20,000 yuan is too expensive, and you can marry a blind date for 100,000 yuan when you turn around.
It is said that I would rather buy a new car for 100,000 yuan than buy a car that has been driven for several years for 20,000 yuan.
2: Is it really normal that the marriage rate is getting lower and lower, and the divorce rate is getting higher and higher?
Is there a real statistical reason for this? Is a low-quality marriage worthy of praise?
Most of the divorced people are concentrated in the post-90s and post-00s, and it is no longer an era of male superiority and inferiority.
Can a girl take care of her family while still having a self-supporting job, while a boy is willing to spare 50% of his free time to manage his relationship and family?
How many people in a family with no feelings, no emotional value, and no financial support are willing to get into it?
When the law pays attention to the "sky-high bride price", should the man's family income also be verified?
Can the woman do without the bride price, and can the man guarantee the quality of life after marriage? Can it solve the problem of children's education?
Can the woman's parents and in-laws get the same treatment?
Marriage is a happy thing, and the obstacles before marriage can be overcome one by one, the key is whether the marriage is happy and long-lasting, which is what should be focused on, right?
How do you think you can have a happy and harmonious marriage?