"You choose a woman who goes to work, and you have to accept that she doesn't care about her family. You choose the woman of the Gu family, and you have to accept that she can't make money. You choose a beautiful woman, and you have to accept her high spending. You choose a woman who saves money to live, and you have to accept that she doesn't dress up.
When you choose a capable woman, you have to accept her domineering temper and unreasonableness. If you choose a mediocre woman, you have to accept her ordinariness.
A perfect woman is only in a dream, a beautiful woman is not virtuous, a virtuous woman is not gentle, a gentle woman is not assertive, an assertive woman is not feminine, a feminine person spends money indiscriminately, a woman who touches wine is not necessarily a bad woman, a woman who does not touch wine is not necessarily a good woman, a poor man is also distracted, and a woman who is not material does not get love, this is the reality.
From the moment of birth, what bowl to serve, what to eat, what to do, when to start a family and who to marry, are all fixed, don't be too difficult for yourself, sometimes you have to have it in your life, and you can't force it in your life."
The person you fall in love with is actually your character. Psychologically speaking, those who can be loved by you are the main characters that you never dare to admit in your heart, but who are the most authentic yourself.
It's like those who follow the rules, they will always be attracted to those who are rebellious, and those who are introverted, most of them are eventually taken over by those who are enthusiastic and unrestrained. Maybe the relationship is to see the self you aspire to be in the other person, which is essentially just a compensation for the lack of self.
Some say why men can have both and ......Have a career, family, and children all?
You misunderstood, in fact, many men are dedicated to their careers, don't believe you ask the men around you, especially if your career is more successful, if you don't give up your career, your wife will leave you with children, how many men do you guess will choose their wives and children?
Men are bent on their own careers, and if women are not too troublesome, it is good to start a family and have children. The family is an investment: with the money you can afford, and a little time, in exchange for a woman who does her best to take care of the whole family, saving herself a lot of energy.
Some feminists believe that men value inheritance, want children, and stare at women's wombs all day long, as if men are crazy about giving birth. Men at the bottom of society think so because their lives are hopeless. But most non-low-level men, especially those with better education, always value their careers the most. Because men know very well that only with a career can there be everything, and if there is a career, there will be wives and children.
And women often don't think that the family is an investment when they have spare power, but run the family as their own business, and want to take the shortcut of the second sex, but they are eaten and squeezed clean.
When you get married, you will understand that a man will not tolerate you when he quarrels because of the pain of your pregnancy and childbirth, and he will not choose to defend you between you and his family. What can make a girl grow up is never chicken soup, but getting married, getting pregnant once, and having a child once. ”
The changes in a woman after marriage often reflect the quality of the marriage. If she becomes more and more childish, it means that her partner has given her forgiving love;
If she becomes more like a shrew, it means that she has suffered a lot of grievances in her marriage. I used to think that entering a family was a family, and when I got married, I knew that I would always be an outsider, and I would never know if I didn't quarrel, and I would go it alone and look at other people's faces, after all, it was not your home. Yes, how can it be a family without blood relations?
The purpose of our marriage is to be happier than single, to have someone to love and someone to care about. If you are wronged, someone coaxes, someone supports you, and someone discusses when you encounter something, instead of a stomach full of grievances and endless tears.
In fact, appearance and wealth are not so important, the important thing is character, responsibility and responsibility, as well as the three views and upbringing engraved in the bones of the original family. So, choosing who to marry is really different, some people will be your light, and some people will put out your light.
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