Such an incident happened in Lianyungang, Jiangsu, which is simply a realistic version of the romantic plot, but if you think about it deeply, there is no lack of irony.
Here's the story, a wife was shopping with her husband when she was fascinated by a piece of clothing. It's a pity that this girl looked at the price tag and then at her husband, and thought, "Forget it, don't spend this unjust money." Although my heart turned a thousand times, I finally gritted my teeth and said one word - "forbearance".
The husband watched the six roads from the sidelines, listened to the eight directions, and saw the careful thoughts of the daughter-in-law. After the two of them left, he sneaked back to the clothes store and bought the dress. When he came out, he may still be secretly proud in his heart, "Look at me not to give you a surprise this time, let you know what true love is!" His reason was even more piercing to the heart: "She is reluctant, I will buy it for her." ”
First of all, I have to say that this husband is really careful and romantic enough. I noticed that my daughter-in-law was careful and could do such a heart-warming thing, I have to say that this kind of little love can really add a lot of fun and sweetness in life.
However, on second thought, this matter also exposed several problems.
First, although romantic, if the family's economic conditions do not allow it, is this kind of "whimsical" consumption really good? In case the balance in the account is not enough to support this expression of love, isn't it that the temperature of love has risen, and the temperature of the bank card has also risen?
Second, if this kind of thing is fine once or twice, if it is like this every time, won't it put pressure on the family's finances? Moreover, if the wife knows, will she feel pressured and feel that she has to think twice about buying things in the future, so as not to cause her husband's "over-budget behavior"?
Although this thing seems quite sweet, it also gives people the feeling that there may be a slight lack of consideration in the concept of consumption. In real life, each family's economic situation is different, and the concept of consumption is also different. On the premise of not affecting the family economy, the appropriate small surprise is beautiful, but it is also necessary to do what you can, otherwise there may be an "economic crisis" behind the "romance" quietly follow.
A little romance in life is necessary, but it's more important for two people to have common values, especially when it comes to money management. Don't let romance become a source of stress, and don't let love become a financial burden. The best state between couples is to not only surprise each other, but also face reality together, consume rationally, and live happily.