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A few days ago, I saw a girl's submission, which made people angry.
She has been in love with her boyfriend for nearly three years, and she had a good conversation, but she basically rushed to get married.
But not long ago, my boyfriend's family bought a house in full in the county, and the other party began to dislike the girl's poor family, feeling that the girl's conditions were not worthy of their family's ......
Both were born in the countryside, the woman's father worked in the engineering team, and the mother was unemployed at home due to poor health; The man's parents returned to their hometown seven or eight years ago to open a shop and do business, and they have an income of about three or four hundred thousand yuan a year.
The girl graduated from college two years ago and wanted to work in a foreign city, but her boyfriend did not allow it, hoping that the girl could be closer to him, so the girl chose to work as an accountant in a small company in the county, with a salary of more than 3,000 a month;
My boyfriend worked for two years after graduating from college, but his work did not improve, so he returned to his parents' shop to help, and his parents gave him a salary of 5,000 yuan a month as his pocket money.
Both of them are only children in the family, and her boyfriend's family has a self-built house built with more than 500,000 yuan in the countryside, and later felt that it was inconvenient to live in the countryside, so he went to the county seat to buy a house of 800,000 yuan.
One day, the girl casually asked what decoration style the house was going to use, and chatted a few words.
The boyfriend took this opportunity to start his speech, he said: "I don't know how to talk to you better, I'm afraid you won't be able to accept it." ”
The girl was very confused, and her boyfriend replied, and the family persuaded him to break up.
The girl is even more confused, her boyfriend's family said that they liked her very much, why do they want to break up now?
The boyfriend responded that his parents like girls very much, and recently he didn't know who chewed his tongue in front of his parents, saying that the two parties did not match, which caused them not to want the two to get married.
Girls continue to ask what aspects do not match, is it personality, three views or family, education or appearance? And who is not worthy of whom?
The boyfriend is ambiguous, and he doesn't deserve it, but he feels that the two parties are not good enough:
The condition of your family is not good, so ask me to find a single family. ”
What's ridiculous is that he didn't get the four words right, and his language level may really not be enough with the woman.
The girl can't understand it, because she has been in love for three years, and the other party's parents have clearly expressed their liking for her, and they didn't feel that they didn't match before, why do they feel it now?
The boyfriend responded that it was the beginning, and now it is now, and it is not what it used to be, after all, "now my family has bought a house".
He said that now that his family has bought a house in the county, he feels that he should find a "city person", and began to count down the woman's family, saying that the woman's education and work are average, the burden on the family is too heavy, and if she gets married, she will have to support the woman's parents.
But obviously he is a college graduate and works in his parents' store, what qualifications does he have to dislike the average job of a girl who has found a job after graduating from a bachelor's degree?
The girl also immediately replied to this statement, and bluntly asked if she bought a house in the county, so she felt that she was not worthy of a man?
The boyfriend didn't hide it either, and gave a positive answer, saying that the family wanted him to find someone with a household registration in the city.
The girl asked him if he wanted to break up, and the boyfriend did not respond positively, but said: "The words of the matchmaker, the life of the parents." Your family is too poor. ”
The girl said that since even he felt that he was not worthy of his family, there was no need to insist.
At this time, the man still wanted to maintain an innocent person, saying that it was not that he felt that the girl's conditions were bad, but that the girl's condition was not good, and that he wanted to marry the girl for a lifetime when he fell in love.
But now the situation is different, marriage is the union of two families with similar conditions, he used an analogy: "Do you still like to eat the spicy noodles that you used to eat when you were a child for five cents a pack if you have a hundred yuan?" ”
During this period, he made excuses in order to shirk his responsibilities and said an unbearable sentence, he said:
After all, you can't blame me, your parents don't have the ability. ”
In the face of such humiliating words, who can not be angry?
The girl told him that it was enough for her parents to raise her. I haven't responded much since then.
The girl involved in this abruptly ended conversation looked quite calm, but it made netizens angry.
Everyone said that they would never tolerate anyone talking about their parents like this, and the woman's performance was so bland, "The quality needs to be reduced." ”
Going back to the matter itself, the fact is that the boy himself dislikes the girl, and the boy has no responsibility at all.
He pushes everything on others, what parents order the words of the matchmaker, what others chew on the root of the tongue; even pushed it to "force majeure", saying that the woman's family conditions were not good, which was actually an expression of his inability to resist.
He used countless excuses to try to show his innocence and shirk his responsibility.
In fact, everyone knows that the fact is that he has a county house of 800,000 yuan, and he began to eat from the bowl and look at the pot, feeling that he could find better conditions and dislike girls.
His trick looks ridiculous like this.
A house of 800,000 yuan revealed his ugly human nature, and it is conceivable that this person's vision is low and the pattern is small.
It is also one of the fortunate things that the girl can discover his true face as soon as possible, and she can stop the loss in time, otherwise she is destined to have such a day after she gets married.
There is such a joke that it is said that three old men squatted in the corner of the wall to bask in the sun.
They chatted and talked about ideals, and the old man who picked up dung said that if he became emperor, he would order that all the dung on the east side of the street should belong to him, and whoever picked it up would be caught;
The old man who chops wood despises the old man who picks dung and only knows how to pick up dung, and if he becomes the emperor, he will build a golden axe to chop wood every day;
The old man who was begging laughed and said that the level of the two of them was really low, and they both wanted to work when they were emperors?
He said that if he became emperor, he would do nothing, and would sit by the fire every day and eat roasted sweet potatoes.
A person's vision has long determined the height of his life, and sometimes he is proud to think that he has reached the limit, but it is likely that this so-called limit is just the starting point of others.
To some extent, the above-mentioned boys are also a kind of "old man".
He kept saying that because he bought a house in the county seat, he wanted to find someone with a hukou in the city, but in the end, it was just a small county town.
His vision is so low that he can only see this corner of the place.
A person who worships the high and steps on the low, and sees the wind and steers the rudder, will not have a broad mind to look at the world, he is like a frog at the bottom of the well, and will only see a piece of sky at the mouth of the well.
You can foresee that his future life will be to do the idle job given by his parents, waiting to take over his parents' shop business, thinking about marrying a county girl with good family conditions, and feeling that he is a winner in life.
His vision has long been destined for his life.
Leave such a person early, not be bound by his vision, maybe one day you will see a broader world.