Interpretation of the characters of "Do You Know If You Should Be Green, Fat, Red and Thin" Issue 160: Does marriage have to be for love? Today we will ** three kinds of interest marriage, revealing the distinction between love and interest in marriage. Let's walk into this complicated world of marriage and see the truth and sadness.
In the original book, Minglan visited the Zhang family for the first time, but was entangled by Xiao Zou's family, and was almost intercepted by Xiao Zou into his yard. In order to get rid of Xiao Zou and beat Xiao Zou, Minglan told her the story of "two princesses". In this story, we see the choices and fates of two princesses in the face of a marriage of interest. This story triggered Xiao Zou's deep thinking about marriage and feelings, and also gave us an introduction, let us go deep into the three interests of marriage.
The first marriage of interests - Mo Lan chose Liang Han for the sake of obsession. Mo Lan married Liang Han, and she fought for her reputation with her mother's family. However, in this marriage, we see Mo Lan's selfishness and obsession. What she pursues is high marriage, glory and wealth, and does not care about the nature of marriage. Mo Lan's marriage is full of scheming and calculation, she only looks at personal interests in marriage, but in the end she lives in a mess.
The second marriage of interests - the loveless marriage between the "ruthless" Xiao Qin and Gu Yankai. Xiao Qin's marriage is full of family scheming, and the parents' scheming and selfishness. She was forced to marry Gu Yankai, and this marriage was destined to be loveless. Xiao Qin's family endured humiliation in this marriage and had to compromise for the sake of the family's interests. Her life was full of bitterness, and in the end it fell short, which can be called a tragic portrayal of a loveless marriage.
The third interest marriage - Zhang Guifen and Shen Congxing, who were "married by order". Zhang Guifen and Shen Congxing are typical interest marriages, and the two families marry for the sake of foundation and status. In this marriage, we saw Zhang Guifen's compromise and honesty. She chose to compromise and was willing to work hard for this loveless marriage for the sake of her children and family. Zhang Guifen shows the wisdom and rationality in marriage, which gives us a different view of the marriage of interests.
Many unmarried young people are always affected by bloody romantic dramas, but they ignore the reality and interests in marriage. Three Benefits Marriage teaches us that marriage needs to be financially based. There is love and water, but in firewood, rice, oil and salt, love may be consumed. For the benefit of marriage, we must keep our hearts, and do not ignore the tacit understanding and planning between husband and wife for the sake of personal happiness. A healthy marriage of interest should be like Zhang Guifen and Shen Congxing, rational and wise, and work together for the development of the family and the future of the children.
In this marriage journey, we focus on three typical cases of marriage of interest, revealing the complexity and helplessness in marriage. Different from the concept of the supremacy of love, the marriage of interest is more pragmatic in the face of reality. However, for marriage, achieving a win-win situation, staying authentic, and keeping one's heart seem to be a more lasting and healthy choice.
Many people often indulge in romantic love fantasies when they are unmarried, but they often ignore the economic basis of marriage. 100,000 a month, my husband doesn't come home, are you willing? This question may be a joke, but it also reflects the practical impact of economic factors in marriage. Marriage needs to be financially foundational, but it also needs emotional support, and the two complement each other to build a solid foundation for marriage.
We cannot simply characterize a marriage of interest as loveless. Just like the example of Zhang Guifen and Shen Congxing, they may not have the original love, but through compromise and understanding, they have created harmony and happiness in a loveless marriage. This kind of marriage may lack passion, but it is more focused on practical joint efforts and future planning.
In the journey of marriage, we need to look at the relationship between interest and love rationally. Marriage of interest is not absolute indifference, but a choice to work hard for the family and the future. When the economic foundation is solid and both parties understand each other, the love and tacit understanding in marriage will be reflected in real life.
Overall, marriage is a long-distance race that requires both parties to work together. Whether it is marriage for love or for profit, the key is to face the truth and make rational choices. There are many ups and downs in marriage, but only on the basis of truth and rationality can we go further and live happier in this long-distance race. Follow me, and I will continue to present you with more in-depth marriage topics in the next issue, and I look forward to working with you.
In this mystery of marriage, we dig deep into the details of the marriage of three interests, revealing the reality and helplessness in marriage. Different from the traditional love first, this time we have a deep understanding of the complexity of marriage, ** in the real society, the interaction between love and economy.
Mo Lan, Xiao Qin, and Zhang Guifen, their stories may be only a small part of many marriages, but they show the diversity in marriage. Marriage is no longer a single definition, but a vast system that encompasses emotion, reason, family and future planning.
Mo Lan's marriage pursued personal glory and wealth, but eventually fell into the abyss. Xiao Qin's family was involved in the family's conspiracy, endured humiliation, and had to compromise for the sake of interests. Zhang Guifen, on the other hand, seeks a balance between interests and family responsibilities, compromising without losing herself.
A marriage of interest is not synonymous with indifference and ruthlessness, but a collaboration about family, responsibility and the future. Economy is the cornerstone of marriage, and emotion and understanding are the lubricants of marriage. As Zhang Guifen showed, even if there is a lack of love at the beginning, through hard work and understanding, you can still find happiness in marriage.
On this road to marriage, which is full of uncertainties, we need to be thoughtful and rational about the various choices in marriage. Love may be the initial motivation for a marriage, but for a long-term and happy marriage, a rational economic foundation is just as important as working together.
Marriage is no longer just a collision of two hearts, but also a family responsibility that two people shoulder together. Whether you are married for love or for profit, the key is to be honest, make rational choices, and work together to create a happy future. I hope you can continue to *** the next issue will bring you more depth of marriage**.
Marriage is a complex game, in which love and interests are intertwined. Through the analysis of the three marriages of interest, we see the laughter and tears in the marriage, and feel the helplessness and wisdom in reality. Perhaps, when facing marriage, we need to look at the relationship between love and interests more rationally, make wise choices, and create a beautiful and practical married life for ourselves. Follow me, the next issue will be more exciting!