With the advancement of globalization, transnational marriage and love are no longer a new thing, such as the love story of the well-known CCTV host Sa Beining and the Canadian woman Li Bai, the pianist Lang Lang marrying Gina, who also has a pianist background, the happy family of four formed by actor Liu Ye and French woman Annais, and the marriage between actress Qi Wei and Korean actor Lee Seung-hyun.
These transnational romances are always romantic, and people talk about these stories while sending their most sincere wishes to their lovers. However, there is a Chinese girl named Zheng Momo, after marrying a foreigner, she is not blessed and is spurned by everyone.
Some people accused her of being shameless, some scolded her for betraying the country, and some even demanded that she leave China forever and never come back.
Why was Zheng Momo questioned and criticized by netizens across the country? What exactly did she do to make the Chinese, who have always supported transnational marriage, critical of her? Please see the following report: This Fujian native of Xiamen University gave up his privileged life in China for love, married an Indian, and studied for a master's degree in the United States.
Zheng Momo's learning talent was fully demonstrated in 2008, and she participated in an academic exchange event as a representative of the school's finance major. At this exchange meeting, she met her future husband, Raj Singh.
The academic exchange meeting was serious and focused, and everyone attended in formal attire, drowning into obscure questions with expressionless faces. After the exchange meeting, the "coffee time" social activity in the dormitory of international students brought a relaxed and happy atmosphere to the scene, and the participating students were all young and energetic, and the whole venue was filled with a youthful atmosphere.
The Indian exchange students who participated in the exchange meeting were deeply impressed by Zheng Momo, her sweet appearance, outgoing personality and enthusiastic communication style, which made her the focus of attention at the exchange meeting.
In a short period of time, Zheng Momo successfully integrated into this big family. The ** Changelings introduced themselves to her, but Indian names are complex, and it was undoubtedly a challenge for this exotic girl to remember these complex names.
Just when she was troubled, an Indian boy seemed to see through her troubles and took the initiative to simplify his name, telling her that his name was Raj. As a result, Raj became the only one who asked Zheng Momo to remember his name at this exchange meeting.
Before he knew it, Zheng Momo and Raj chatted for three hours. She found that Raj's complexion was not as dark as that of other Indians, and his eyes were also very beautiful, clear and bright.
The window of the soul, the eyes can see the heart. At the moment when Zheng Momo looked at Raj, he resolutely decided in his heart that Raj must be a gentle and kind person.
This made her feel fond of Raj. So, they exchanged *** and began frequent joint outings. In the eyes of the lover, every movement of Raj was given a gentle color by Zheng Momo.
Seeing Raj generously distribute his living expenses to the beggars on the side of the road, Zheng Momo's heart would be full of enthusiasm to cheer for him: "Raj is really the most loving and generous person in the world!" ”
When they started dating, Raj had a good impression of Zheng Momo, and felt that Zheng Momo was close to him, and he bravely confessed to Zheng Momo, so they became a happy and sweet campus couple.
The relationship between the two is as sweet as ever, like honey in love, and it seems that it has come to the time to talk about marriage. However, their love was met with resistance from both parents.
Zheng Momo's mother heard that her daughter was in love with a young Indian and couldn't help crying at home. Her imaginary India was far away, where the people were very superstitious and the living conditions were extremely difficult, and she feared that her daughter would suffer if she married.
Raj's parents were also adamantly opposed because their family belonged to the Singh high race and had equal social status. According to Indian tradition, people within the family should accept arranged marriages, and even free love will be criticized, let alone marry a foreign woman into the family, and I have heard that foreign women do not behave properly enough.
1.Zheng Momo understands and accepts the misunderstanding between the Chinese and Indian peoples, believing that India is just a false stereotype of individual views. In 2009, she and Raj bravely settled and married in the United States, despite their family's opposition.
2.After getting married, the two lived a sweet life, and Zheng Momo was like a boasting group leader, and spoke highly of Raj's behavior. Raj does not eat meat because of religious restrictions, and Zheng Momo will praise his compassion on social platforms.
This reflects her admiration for Raj.
Zheng Momo's love brain made her make a shocking decision. When Raj honestly told her that the family had married an older wife for him, she did not feel cheated and accepted the news and served with her husband.
Perhaps in order to gain acceptance from Raj's family, she changed her surname to Singh and changed her nationality to India. This news has caused widespread controversy on the Internet, and many people have criticized her for admiring foreigners and choosing to marry foreigners as little wives instead of marrying excellent Chinese men.
Many criticized her for ignoring female dignity and opting for self-indulgence. But there are also people who understand her, after all, love is a personal experience, and the most important thing is that she feels comfortable herself.
In the whirlpool, Zheng Momo seized the opportunity and began to share his thoughts about Indian culture on social media and ***. She claimed that her purpose was to enhance understanding between the Chinese and Indian peoples and to maintain friendship between the two countries.
In Zheng Momo's **, some show her and Raj's love story. She once shared that the two will have small conflicts after getting married, and sometimes they will even quarrel.
Raj, on the other hand, uses humor to describe himself as like a kitten frightened by a big dog when arguing, and can only shiver in the corner. This kind of love story full of joy and warmth has deeply attracted many little girls, who have left messages under Zheng Momo's ** to express their envy, and also hope to find an Indian man like Raj.
Zheng Momo intimately encouraged them, telling them that there is very little information about Sino-Indian transnational marriage and love, and if you want to know about it, you can join the WeChat group she founded.
This sincere suggestion allowed Zheng Momo to win the trust of many little girls in a short period of time, and her WeChat group quickly attracted hundreds of newcomers to join.
While sharing her love experience, Zheng Momo often reveals the cultural differences between China and India. One of the issues about whether Indians eat with their hands and go to the toilet has been widely discussed, while several issues have also received a lot of attention on the social status of women in India.
As a result, Zheng Momo gradually became a well-known Internet celebrity and accumulated a certain number of fans. However, as time went on, the audience began to notice a problem.
Although Zheng Momo has repeatedly emphasized that she will remain objective and fair when doing **, in her words, she always tends to praise India and belittle China. Zheng Momo's logic is very unique, she uses the kindness of her husband Raj (a representative of the Indian middle class) to conclude that all the Indian middle class are good, but does not provide any factual basis.
She focuses on hot topics in China, but most of them are negative news. Whenever she encounters a social event that has a bad impact, Zheng Momo will always over-interpret it, elevate the case to the national level, and exaggerate personal mistakes as mistakes in the policy system.
However, is Raj really a good guy? Or is he biased against China's policies? Netizens who know the couple have different opinions about this. In fact, in the Chinese view, Raj is not a good person, because his ideas run counter to China's mainstream values, and he often criticizes China's policies on social media.
In order to please her husband, Zheng Momo belittled her motherland, completely forgetting that this land made her and made her a leader in a prestigious school. She gave up her identity, lost her name, and lost the pride of her Chinese children.
On the Internet, what she did caused accusations and criticisms from everyone, and people who were attracted to her ** and were full of respect for India suddenly felt deceived and realized with great sadness that they believed the words of an ungrateful villain.
However, netizens apparently underestimated Ms. Zheng's brazenness, and these criticisms were nothing more than a means to increase her popularity, not only did not make her introspective, but made her more and more excited.
On November 10, 2011, Zheng Momo issued a statement on domestic social **: "Cherish life and stay away from China", which completely exposed her true anti-China colors.
One stone stirs up a thousand waves", Zheng Momo's remarks aroused strong indignation on the Internet. Patriotic netizens strongly demanded that the platform ban her account to prevent her from continuing to make any insulting remarks about the country.
However, even though Zheng Momo's account was banned, she still hypocritically claimed on foreign social media ** that she criticized China because she loved her country too much. However, such remarks of hers cannot be accepted by anyone, because she has changed her nationality, changed her name, lives abroad, and is no longer a Chinese citizen in law.
This ungrateful behavior was eventually retributed, and all of her domestic accounts were banned, leaving her angry and constantly accusing China of not being democratic and free of speech, while completely forgetting the rumors she had spread and the harm she had done to China.
When the new crown epidemic broke out in January 2020, because Wuhan was the first to be attacked by the virus, the West deliberately called the new crown virus "Wuhan virus" and spread it around the world.
After hearing about this, Zheng Momo blindly followed the trend and blamed China, claiming that it was the Chinese who brought the virus from nature into human society, causing people all over the world to suffer.
Zheng Momo's patriotic remarks before were once again strongly denied by her words and deeds this time. If she is really a patriotic person who cares about the people, why did she not focus on her compatriots who are suffering first during the outbreak of the epidemic, but instead accused them of being sinners all over the world?
In March 2020, the World Health Organization (WHO) announced that the novel coronavirus originated in nature and therefore should not be called a geographically discriminatory name like the "Wuhan virus" after rigorous trials and tests.
Despite Zheng's frenzied attacks on China, a vice dean at the School of International Relations at Renmin University of Chinese expressed bewilderment, questioning whether she was mentally and intellectually normal.
In 2021, the global pandemic was raging, but the situation in China gradually improved, and people returned to normal work and life. However, India, the world's second most populous country, has been hit hard by the pandemic.
Zheng Momo's imagination of a beautiful democratic India has torn off its camouflage in the face of reality, and every day the news is full of new cases and the wails of poor people. Although the Singh family was middle-class and wealthy, Raj fled to the United States with his family.
However, during the epidemic, everyone was in danger, and the good-tempered Raj couldn't stand Zheng Momo's stinky temper and finally filed for divorce from her.
In the face of difficulties, the former husband and wife have become strangers. When Zheng Momo found out that Raj was going to take only his eldest wife and leave her alone in the United States, she chose to resist without hesitation.
In order to survive, she got into a heated argument with Raj and was even knocked to the ground by Raj. Even though she begged him not to abandon him, Raj hardened his heart and forced her to sign a divorce settlement.
In this marriage, Zheng Momo saw Raj's true face. Without the blessing of the Singh family, she lost her finances. As a stay-at-home wife, she never imagined that there would be a day when she would be displaced.
When China** sent a special plane to take them back to China in order to ensure the safety of overseas Chinese, Zheng Momo realized that she had Chinese blood in her veins. She approached the embassy staff and hoped to take a special flight back to her home country.
However, when the embassy personnel checked her documents, they found that she had changed her nationality to India, and she was unwilling to admit that she was Chinese and wanted to enjoy the rights and interests of Chinese citizens, which was obviously unreasonable.
Therefore, the embassy rejected her request, and the news made many netizens applaud. In general, people often talk about "life is precious, love is more expensive", but is Zheng Momo's behavior really out of love?
If the person she loves is not from a high race and cannot provide a high-quality living environment, is she still willing to follow firmly? In fact, Zheng Momo's behavior only proves that she is a shameless money worshipper.
Before indulging in love and money, we should first become an upright person, because karma is reincarnated, and one day there will be retribution.