Teacher Ye Tan and Cai Lei, one is a financial woman, and the other is a business elite. The two did not intersect before, but they knew each other after they got sick.
Ye Tan was diagnosed with advanced bone metastasis of breast cancer in July 2022, and Cai Lei was diagnosed with amyotrophic lateral sclerosis, also known as ALS, in September 2019.
Ye Tan has undergone chemotherapy and other **physical tendencies**, and has visited Cai Lei in Beijing twice in October 2023 and January 2024. The two sympathized with each other, talked about illness, talked about pain, talked about hope, talked about the end of life, what would happen if only pain remained?
Cai Lei's condition is getting worse and worse, and in December 2023, he suffocated 4 times in one night due to a cold and cough. He talked about the fact that his medical research team was running at full capacity, and he was using all his wealth and limited life to fight for little hope.
That time, Cai Lei and Ye Tan hugged each other tightly. Originally, Ye Tan wanted to persuade Cai Lei to pay attention to rest, but seeing the light in his eyes and the firm belief that burst out in his body although he was crippled, Ye Tan said, I don't persuade him to rest. Ye Tan sent a gift to Cai Lei, hoping to give him good luck.
Cai Lei said, you join our team. Ye Tan said, okay.
Recently, Ye Tanfa ** told everyone to take care of Cai Lei together, don't care about it like this.
Ye Tan said, Cai Lei, I will never say two words to him, the first sentence is that you want to rest, don't do it; The second sentence is that it's because you do this that you get sick. That's a very bad word.
The first sentence said this, and the balance that people had built was broken. I used to wonder if he was bad for his condition at 10:11 every day. But if he has formed his own system without internal friction, and at the same time he feels that this day is very fulfilling, and he feels that it is all valuable and vigorous. Why is it bad?
And then the second one, it's all because of how you used to be, so you're sick now. It makes the patient feel stigma, self-condemnation, and self-loathing.
Sometimes getting sick is a probability, and he's unlucky. There are people who fight like him, and they don't get ALS.
Whether we are from the perspective of humanity and benevolence, or from the perspective of career and friends, this is absolutely not to be said.