Sometimes it's not necessarily your IQ that determines the direction of a person's life, but your ability to control your emotions. Therefore, in the world, what emotion is what life.
Su Shi said back then: "There is no reason to add but not angry, and suddenly it is not surprised." Zhuangzi said: "Respect but not like, nothing but anger". It is said that when you are respected, do not be ecstatic, and when you are injust, do not be easily angry. In fact, it is the same as in our lives, when problems arise, if you lose the ability to control your emotions, it is equivalent to losing the ability to solve problems.
Let's take a look, Han Xin, who is known as a generation of military strategists, when he was young, he could endure and endure the humiliation of his crotch, and it was this leap that allowed him to cross the class, the dimension, the realm, break the circle, and become an invincible god of war. Therefore, an excellent person is a person who can control his emotions, just as Buddhism says "the eight winds do not move", Taoism says "inaction does not cure", and the folk say "the weak are as irritable as a tiger, and the strong can be calm as water". This reminds me of a quote from Zhuangzi: "If a person can humble himself to travel the world, who can harm him?" "That is to say, on the rivers and lakes, if you don't take yourself too seriously, who can hurt you? No one will be able to provoke you, so, sometimes, imagine if you're already dirt, who can bury you? You're already in the sea, who can drown you? Therefore, you should cultivate slowly, so that when the impermanence and impermanence in life come, you can properly place your emotions, so that everywhere you look, there is warmth!
In this fast-paced society, we often face various pressures and challenges, and it is especially important to learn to put our emotions in check. We need to keep a calm mind at all times, and face life's challenges with tolerance and understanding. When we learn to take control of our emotions, we are better able to face life's difficulties and challenges, and we become stronger and more confident.