"Thirty Only" The emotion and value behind the hotel disputeIn the drama "Thirty Only", the two male protagonists Xu Huanshan and Liang Zhengxian have both booked hotels for a third party. However, it is also the act of booking a hotel, why is the five-star luxury hotel that Liang Zhengxian spent 8,000 yuan to book is cheaper than the 1,000 yuan a night hotel that Xu Huanshan booked for Lin Youyou in the eyes of the audience? The key to this lies in the starting point of the two men's spending and their relationship with the third party.
The relationship between Xu Huanshan and Lin Youyou can be said to be based on momentary impulsiveness and ambiguity. Xu Huanshan booked a hotel for Lin Youyou, more out of concern and worry, because he considered that Lin Youyou came to Shanghai after his naked resignation and was not familiar with the place. This move is based more on friendship or short-term ambiguity than on true love.
And the relationship between Liang Zhengxian and Wang Manni was full of calculation and hunting from the beginning. Liang Zhengxian took a fancy to Wang Manni at a glance, as a "sea king", he naturally knows how to use money to ** women. He handed Wang Manni a room card for 8,000 yuan a night, which seemed to be a romantic move, but it was actually a trap he set for his prey. This kind of romance wrapped in money seems to be high-end, but in fact it hides a crisis. Wang Manni accepted the room card, and after a spring breeze with Liang Zhengxian, her status was underestimated in Liang Zhengxian's eyes.
From the perspective of value, although Xu Huanshan's 1,000 yuan hotel is expensive, in the eyes of the audience, it is based on care and ambiguous choices, without too much emotional calculation. And Liang Zhengxian's 8,000 yuan hotel, although ** is higher, but because of the motive and purpose behind it, this behavior seems cheaper in the eyes of the audience.
In addition, the third person in the two relationships is also different. When Wang Manni accepted Liang Zhengxian's room card, she was motivated by the desire and pursuit of a high-quality life. And Lin Youyou is bent on intervening in Xu Huanshan's marriage, and this kind of immoral behavior will naturally not be recognized by the audience.
To sum up, it is also the act of booking a hotel, and the reason why Liang Zhengxian and Xu Huanshan's approach in "Thirty Only" has a different sense of value in the eyes of the audience is mainly due to the starting point of the two men's spending money, the relationship between them and the third party, and the motivation of the third party. This also brings us a profound revelation: in relationships, the balance between money and emotions is crucial. In the face of **, we need to be soberly aware of our own value and not be confused by the short-term interests in front of us. True happiness and value lies in inner cultivation and improvement, as well as respect for oneself and others. In this complex world, we need to learn to distinguish the true from the false and see the human heart clearly in order to find the happiness that truly belongs to us.