In "Big River", Yang Xun has a rich emotional experience, but his fate is unfortunate, but he has not gained a happy harvest, which is pitiful and lamentable.
Yang Xun, who has a "money" path, why didn't he gain a truly happy marriage?
Yang Xun and Xiaofeng eventually parted ways. Among them, the most regrettable thing is that Yang Xun met someone who wanted to take care of her whole life at the most destitute age, but he loved her but did not leave her.
It is said that lovers eventually become dependents, but how many lovers in the world eventually become married?
However, it is a pity to regret, but they were actually defeated by Yang Xun's foolishness, Yang's mother's tradition, and Xiaofeng's seemingly strong but fragile heart.
Many years later, the two reunited, Xiaofeng forgot a word, and exhausted all the sad and unreminiscent pasts.
Yes, once loved, don't miss the past......
Their love is just as Nalan Xingde wrote in "Mulan Ci: Quasi-Ancient Decisive Words Cambodian Friends": "If life is only as first seen, what is the autumn wind and sad fan." Waiting for idle changes but old people's hearts, but old people's hearts are changeable. Lishan said that it was half a night away, and the tears and rain did not complain. How is Bo Xing Jinyilang, who wishes on the same day. ”
I wonder if Yang Xun knew the result, would he have expressed the following feelings:
If you meet someone you like again, then just be friends, don't be emotional, only appreciate from afar, and like it lightly. Or don't know each other at the beginning, because it will only: "Sauvignon Blanc is long-term memory, Sauvignon Blanc is infinite, I knew it was so stumbling, how could I not know each other at the beginning." ”
In fact, it cannot be said that there is affection between Yang Xun and Liang Sishen, and even if there is, it can only be Yang Xun's unrequited love! In fact, Yang Xun's biggest mistake in this relationship was that he regarded Liang Sishen's cooperation with him as Liang Sishen's interest to him, but did not see that the cooperation between the two was based on Liang Sishen's feelings for Song Yunhui, and underestimated Liang Sishen's details and counterattack ability, which eventually led to the breakdown of the relationship between the two! It can be seen that there is a class difference between two people that is difficult to bridge.
In this relationship, Yang Xun wanted to take advantage of Liang Sishen's innocence, so as to encroach on Liang Sishen step by step, and use this to get Liang Sishen's connections, but in the end, being smart was mistaken by being smart, and stealing chickens did not make rice!
On the other hand, Liang Sishen is educated, knowledgeable, capital, and connected, and can definitely be called an upper-class person, and her ideal partner is definitely the talented Song Yunhui, not Yang Xun, so it is destined that the two will not have feelings. Perhaps, in relationships, authenticity and maturity are more valuable qualities.
In fact, love is not the only way to prove that you are strong, and at the same time, you don't have to be obsessed with proving your past, but focus on the present and make yourself strong.
As he said to Liang Sishen sadly and angrily at the end: I have loved you, and I have never wanted to harm you. But I hate you, and you ** kids.
But I'm not going to throw in the towel, and one day, I'll catch up with you.
The first time Yang Xun fell in love with Xiaofeng, he rushed to get married, and the result was very miserable. The second time with Bai Fumei's Liang Sishen, it was even more miserable than the first time because of the difference in the three views of the two. Because after all, Liang Sishen is a returnee, and his family is powerful, rich and powerful, whether it is education, appearance, or family background, Yang Xun is not as good as Liang Sishen, the gap between the two is too big! The most important thing is that Yang Xun is a businessman who sees the wind and steers, values profits over separation, and is full of shrewd calculations.
However, although Yang Xun and Ren Yao achieved positive results for the third time, they still divorced in the end. Because Ren Yaoer does not have Xiaofeng's water-based poplar flowers, love vanity, and Liang Sishen's shrewdness and arrogance, competitiveness and competitiveness. She is intimate and meticulous, rational and steady, which just complements Yang Xun's impulsiveness and recklessness, she is the most suitable other half for Yang Xun! However, the reason why Yang Xun married Ren Yaoer was because of Ren Yaoer's ability, which could help him, and it was more about utilization and calculation, so the two were destined to not go to the end.
Ren is not only independent, self-motivated, capable, but also knows what he wants. But as mentioned above, Yang Xun's pursuit of her has never been because of love, but because of naked "profit". As Yang Su said: "If you really become a family, there is such an iron abacus in charge of finances, in charge of internal affairs, and there is no worry about how a man wants to develop, how good." Whatever you say is better than the women who the eldest brother has recently dated who only know how to sing, dance, and spend money in bars, the sister-in-law of the Yang family, everyone hopes that she can be calm."
Although Yang Xun thinks: "The women he has caught up with or have not caught up with in his life, which one is not beautiful, but this one is so good-looking." But when he thought about Ren's digital abilities, he felt that everything was not a problem. Therefore, his appointment was never love, but career. Because he has always been looking for a business partner, not a life partner.