The finale of "The World".
Among the many characters in "The World", we see a variety of distinct character traits. Zhou Bingkun's simplicity and fearlessness, Zhou Bingyi's dedication to the people, Zheng Juan's kindness and kindness, Zhou Rong's independence and Chunyan's materialistic pursuit all left a deep impression on the audience. But in this drama, there are only a few people who can really be called "sober in the world". They don't have clear moral boundaries, they just use wisdom to deal with life's challenges. Therefore, the lifestyle of these characters is particularly free.
The first is Dong Weihong. During the period of the Jiangliao Corps, the young Dong Weihong met Yao Lisong, who was already a senior propaganda section chief and Zhou Bingyi's boss at that time. Although Yao Lisong is much older than Dong Weihong and has a child, Dong Weihong came together with him. With the development of the plot, we gradually understand that the combination of Dong Weihong and Yao Lisong is not out of simple feelings. Dong Weihong, a southerner, could not endure the severe cold in the north.
An experience of being injured by forgetting to wipe her hands made her determined to leave the place. She knew that it would be difficult to achieve this wish on her own, so she chose to use Yao Lisong's power. With Yao Lisong's career change and promotion, Dong Weihong's life has also undergone earth-shaking changes, and she has lived the life of a rich wife that many people envy. However, material abundance does not bring inner satisfaction. Yao Lisong's betrayal made Dong Weihong face a marriage dilemma. But she saw this very thoroughly, because from the beginning, what she pursued was not just love, but a kind of life security.
Overall, the finale of "The World" shows the diversity and complexity of life. Different characters pursue their own happiness in different ways, and the real "sobriety in the world" may be those who can see the essence of life and bravely pursue what they really need. Dong Weihong clearly understands that marriage can only choose the part that he values and needs the most. Compared to those women who want everything in marriage, she is much more rational and comfortable. She understands the marriage she wants, and she is determined to pursue it.
Artesian Water and Luo Shibin are the source of Zheng Juan's suffering, however, their styles are very different. Luo Shibin bullied Zheng Juan and caused her to become pregnant, but did not want to be responsible afterwards. Shui Artesian insisted on sending money to Zheng Juan to ensure that she received the necessary help. After the child was born, Shui Ziliu thought that Zheng Juan's husband must be a good person, so he forcefully demanded that Zhou Bingkun "be treated as a father" and became this innocent pick-up man.
A few years later, Artesian and Luo Shibin were imprisoned for something, and after being released from prison, Luo Shibin only wanted to go out to make money, and Artesian reminded him to care about the child's situation. Although Luo Shibin didn't care about the children at first, when he made a lot of money and knew that he could no longer have offspring, Shui Artesian reminded him that there were still Zheng Juan's children to consider. So, he began to help Luo Shibin communicate with Zhou Bingkun and Zheng Juan, trying to get them to let their children recognize Luo Shibin.
When Luo Shibin was angry at Zheng Juan's refusal to admit that the child was his, he blamed Zhou Bingkun for the idea. Artesian knew very well that Luo Shibin, who had been successful, began to become blind, and if he forcibly confronted Zhou Bingkun, he would only hurt the child. Therefore, he clarified the facts and said that it was Zheng Juan's meaning.
Luo Shibin and Zhou Bingkun died after a conflict. In court, Luo's wife demanded that Zhou Bingkun be held responsible. As Luo Shibin's closest person, Shui Artesian said a lot of good things for him, and firmly believed that Zhou Bingkun would not hurt good people for personal reasons. In order to stop Luo's wife from continuing, Shui Artesian warned her that if she continued to torture Zhou Bingkun, he would make her efforts come to naught as an investor.
At the same time, he also ensured that the group would not be brought down after Peng Xinsheng took over the Luo Group. The words of Artesian Water are full of deep meaning, and he said that he will replace Mr. Luo and pay serious attention to the other party. Netizens think that his essence is not bad, and his conscience still exists. When his friend was in trouble, he was full of kindness to his friend's wife and helped him if he could; In the mall, he stays sober and does not do anything that harms the interests of others or companies.
Zheng Guangming, Zheng Juan's younger brother, was blind since he was a child and was taken in by his adoptive mother like Zheng Juan. His fate is similar to Zheng Juan's, but he is more open-minded and never complains about the injustice of fate. When Zheng Juan was pregnant, he didn't wait to see Zhou Bingkun, but he received Zhou Bingkun with his mother at the entrance of the alley. After several contacts, Zheng Guangming decided in his heart that Bingkun was a good person and the man Zheng Juan needed. He deliberately matched them and thus played a positive role in their relationship.
Later, Zhou's mother fell ill, and Zheng Juan offered to take care of her. When Zhou Bingkun asked how to take care of the child, Zheng Guangming immediately expressed his willingness to take the child, completely forgetting that he was still a child. Zheng Juan took care of Zhou's mother for two years, and Zheng Guangming also accompanied her at Zhou's house for two years. His dedication made the Zhou family grateful. However, when Zhou's mother woke up, Zheng Guangming decided to leave. He proposed to Zheng Juan the idea of becoming a monk, which made her feel reluctant. But he tells her that he needs his own life too. In order for her and Zhou Bingkun to accept his departure, he resolutely expressed his decision.
Sun Xiaoning likes Zhou Bingkun and wants to replace Zheng Juan. At first, Zheng Juan felt uneasy, but then Zheng Guangming gave her advice and stabilized her mood. He told her that the key was Zhou Bingkun's thoughts. If he didn't mean that, Sun Xiaoning's liking was meaningless; If that meant it, her refusal was invalid. Zheng Juan followed his advice, first clarified her position, and then tested Zhou Bingkun's idea, and finally she personally rejected Sun Xiaoning.
Some people say that light is a special existence in "The World". Although he is in this world, he has a different state of mind. Perhaps it was because of his blindness that he was more transparent and relieved, a quality that did not belong to his age. If he hadn't lost his eyesight, maybe he would have done something great and become the most wonderful person he could be.
In "The World", if you want to find a character similar to Guangming, then Director Jin is undoubtedly the first choice. His degree of transparency is unmatched, and he always sees problems deep into the bone marrow. Once, Cai Xiaoguang asked Zhou Bingyi to help contact Hao Dongmei's father, hoping to get some help. Dongmei was very honest and directly handed over Cai Xiaoguang's information to Hao's father. However, after this incident, Hao's father had an opinion on Zhou Bingyi. Dongmei was puzzled, thinking that she was just doing her in-laws a small favor.
At this time, Director Jin explained the seriousness of the matter to Dongmei. He pointed out that if he only helped Dongmei's sister-in-law today, then tomorrow there may be neighbors, seven aunts and eight aunts to ask for help. In order to avoid this, the relatives of the Zhou and Hao families never saw each other for more than two decades.
Some people think that the Hao family has too much sense of class and is unreasonable to do so. However, this is only looking at the problem from the perspective of ordinary people. In fact, the Hao family did not get too close to the Zhou family in order to better protect the Zhou family. As time passed, Zhou Bingyi also understood the intentions of his parents-in-law after he was promoted.
Another time, Dongmei wanted to take Feng Yue to live at home, so she first asked Director Jin for advice. Director Kim disagrees with this idea. He told Dongmei: "It's easy to please God, but it's hard to send God." If Feng Yue lives in Hao's house for a long time, it will bring a lot of trouble to the family. What if Feng Yue gets used to the Hao family's small western-style building and is not used to the outside environment in the future? Although Dongmei had already promised Zhou Rong, Director Jin taught her how to skillfully refuse and put the blame on herself.
Through these storylines, we can see the different personalities and ways of doing things of different characters in "The World". They are all coping with life's challenges and difficulties in their own way. This work shows the complexity and diversity of human nature through delicate character descriptions and plot arrangements. Director Jin can always use her rich life wisdom to give guidance to Dongmei and Zhou Bingyi when they need it.
Her vision and mind are indeed not attainable by ordinary people. "Sober in the world", a popular word on the Internet in recent years, depicts those who can still keep a clear mind, clear self-positioning, and not be disturbed by the outside world in the complicated life. We all aspire to be such people, because such people can better control the rudder of life, be the master of emotions, and reduce suffering.
But why do some people feel pain while others are so calm? A netizen's summary hit the nail on the head: "Your pain stems from the fact that the cognitive dimension is too low. Albert Einstein once said, "Problems cannot be solved by the mindset that leads to them." Therefore, the most effective way to solve our own pain is to improve our cognitive level.
There are many ways to improve awareness. First of all, we can enrich our life experience, learn to summarize and reflect, and not rush to complain when we encounter problems, but think about solutions. Second, we can learn from the experiences of those we think are wise and imitate them repeatedly. In addition, reading books is the most cost-effective way to improve cognition. Just like Mr. Liang Xiaosheng, the original author of "The World", said: "The purpose of reading is not to achieve much achievement, but to give you an inner strength when you are beaten back to the original shape by life, fall into the quagmire and suffer setbacks, so that you can face it quietly and calmly." ”
When we face the blows and setbacks of life, we can still maintain a peaceful mind, which is the true sobriety of the world. May we all be like that.