In the traditional concept, "raising children and preventing old age" is a creed that is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. However, in modern society, with the change of family structure and the change of people's values, more and more families have only daughters and no sons. So, how will these old people with only daughters live in their old age? Today, let's use the personal experience of the 75-year-old uncle to ** this topic.
1. Family structure and emotional sustenance
Uncle's surname is Zhang, and we call him Uncle Zhang. Uncle Zhang and his wife only had one daughter in their lives, and they are now married. In the traditional concept, it seems to be a pity not to have a son, but Uncle Zhang has a different opinion.
My wife and I have never felt that not having a son is a kind of missing. Uncle Zhang said that his daughter has been their pride and treasure since she was a child, and they poured all their love into her daughter. The daughter is also very filial, both mentally and materially, and has given them enough care and support.
In modern society, the family structure is becoming more and more diverse, and forms such as one-child families and Dink families have emerged one after another. For these families, emotional sustenance does not depend entirely on the gender of the children, but more on the emotional communication and interaction between family members.
2. Life care and pension arrangements
As they grew older, Uncle Zhang and his wife gradually developed various minor problems in their bodies. But luckily, my daughter is very attentive and often comes home to visit them and helps them deal with various problems in their daily lives.
My daughter would help us with medicine, cooking, cleaning, and chatting with us. Uncle Zhang said that these seemingly insignificant little things made them feel great warmth and care. In addition, they also learned about and enjoyed some convenient elderly care services through the community elderly care service center, such as regular health check-ups, door-to-door meal delivery, etc.
Modern society provides more and more abundant pension resources and services for the elderly, which can largely make up for the regret that children cannot always be by the side of the elderly due to work and other reasons. At the same time, the first and all walks of life are also actively promoting the construction and improvement of the pension service system to provide more protection and support for the elderly in their later life.
3. Spiritual life and psychological comfort
In addition to material care and support, spiritual life is equally important for older people. Uncle Zhang said that he and his wife attach great importance to the enrichment and enrichment of spiritual life.
We watch TV, listen to the radio, read books and newspapers, and participate in various cultural and sports activities organized by the community. Uncle Zhang said that these activities not only allowed them to maintain a good attitude and mood, but also allowed them to meet many like-minded friends.
In addition, my daughter often takes them out to travel and visit exhibitions, which makes them feel the diversity and beauty of life. These experiences not only enrich their spiritual world, but also make them cherish and appreciate every bit of life even more.
4. Social support and happiness in old age
When talking about happiness in his later years, Uncle Zhang said that in addition to the warmth and support of the family, the care and help of the society are also indispensable.
We felt the care and help from the community, ** and all walks of life. Uncle Zhang said that these supports and help have made them more courageous and confident in the face of difficulties and challenges in life.
In modern society, with the deepening of the aging population, the quality of life and happiness of the elderly have attracted more and more attention from the society. ** And all walks of life are also actively taking measures to provide more support and help for the elderly, so that they can live a happier and healthier life in their later years.
5. Conclusion and Reflections
Through Uncle Zhang's personal experience, we can see that the elderly who only have daughters and no sons can also live happily and fully in their old age. The key lies in the emotional communication and interaction between family members, the full use of social resources, and the adjustment and adaptation of personal mentality.
Of course, everyone's experience and situation are different, and we can't simply apply Uncle Zhang's experience to all the old people who only have daughters and no sons. However, we can draw some useful inspiration and experience from it, and provide useful reference and reference for more elderly people in their later life. At the same time, we should also pay more attention to and respect the needs and rights of the elderly, and create a better environment and conditions for their later life.