The Tang Dynasty poet Luo Yin once wrote:
When heaven and earth come together, the heroes are not free. ”
When the time comes, heaven and earth will help each other; When the time is gone, the heroes are also ambitious.
In life, everyone wishes for good luck and a prosperous life.
But pie never falls from the sky, and no success can be achieved through fantasies.
All good luck is not sought, but earned by one's own efforts.
In the future, cultivate yourself in the following 5 things, and good luck will follow.
Pay attention to appearance, be generous and decent.
Yuan song "Uncle Fan" said:
Respect Luo Yi first and then people, first respect the skin and then respect the soul. ”
Your image is your business card, and to a certain extent, represents your life status and level.
The image is not good, and no matter how perfect the inner is, it is difficult to have a chance to show it.
A netizen in Zhihu once talked about his friend Xiaowei's interview experience.
Xiaowei doesn't pay much attention to dressing up, and always gives people a sloppy feeling.
Once, he went to a large training institution for an interview and needed to give a 5-minute trial lecture.
For this, he prepared for a whole month:
Consult with relatives who are teachers, keep rehearsing, keep improving.
Netizens have also listened to Xiaowei's class, the voice is magnetic, the content is from shallow to deep, easy to understand, and the classroom atmosphere is well controlled.
Just when everyone thought that Xiaowei would definitely pass, he was brushed off.
Because the interviewer saw his sloppy image and thought that he didn't pay attention to the interview, he didn't give him a chance to try out, so it was over.
There is a first cause effect in psychology, which refers to the first impression, which will greatly affect how good or bad you are in the other person's mind.
An elegant and decent appearance is not only respect for others, but also respect for oneself and life.
How can a person who doesn't even pay attention to his own image be willing to get in touch with him?
As Yang Lan said:
No one is obligated to look beyond your sloppy exterior to discover your inner self. ”
Only by paying attention to appearance and being a delicate person can you leave a good impression and make people willing to approach you, understand you, and trust you.
Lifelong learning and daring to try.
In the eyes of Charlie Munger, a well-known investor, learning is the key to success, so he always encourages people to read more, think more, and try new things.
He himself has always maintained the habit of lifelong learning.
As a young man, Charlie Munger was admitted to Harvard Law School with honors.
During his university years, in addition to his professional field, he also taught himself knowledge in economics, psychology and other fields.
After graduating, he became a lawyer in the court.
But he didn't stop there.
On the contrary, every day after work, he spends a lot of time reading financial newspapers and books.
After reading for a long time, he became interested in the field of financial investment, so he quit his job as a lawyer and changed careers to become an investor.
With his wealth of knowledge and learning ability, Charlie Munger has made a name for himself in the investment field.
If people blindly stick to their comfort zone and refuse to learn, they will one day fall into the limitation of "seeing only the trees, not the forest".
Only by actively expanding the cognitive dimension and having the courage to contact the unknown can we continue to move forward on the road of growth and see more scenery.
French writer Zola said:
The whole point of life lies in the infinite exploration of what is not yet known, in the constant addition of more knowledge. ”
Learning is the best investment, and every bit of knowledge and skills you have learned will allow you to see more opportunities and create more possibilities.
At the right time, it will bring you great rewards.
Cultivate bluntness and stay optimistic.
The book "Insensitive Force" points out that insensitive power is a kind of talent, a means and wisdom to win a good life.
Blunt sensitivity means that you will not be discouraged when you are reprimanded, and you can still maintain a cheerful mood and restore your ability to be happy.
Many times, people feel sad because they are too sensitive.
Once you are too concerned about the unexpected world's views and cranky thoughts, you will collapse your mentality and muddy your life.
Song Xiaodong, a best-selling author, often published articles on psychology online in his early days.
After each post, I repeatedly checked the number of readings, and the comments were read one by one.
If there are netizens who accuse, he can not sleep for several days.
During that time, his nerves were tense every day, and he was always thinking about how to satisfy all his readers.
In this way, life gradually became a mess, unable to concentrate on things, and exhausted inside.
Fortunately, Song Xiaodong discovered the problem in time and tried to relax and pay less attention to the accusations of the outside world.
After making adjustments, his heart became calm and no longer affected by negative thoughts.
At the same time, creative inspiration is also emerging, and the more the article is written, the smoother it becomes.
Attention is an amplifier of emotions, and what we focus on, life will become.
People with sensitive minds, when they encounter a little setback, destroy themselves, doubt themselves and question others over and over again.
And people who are dull will never fall into ineffective internal friction because of failure or other people's accusations.
When they encounter a problem, they focus more on the thing itself than on the negative emotions that come with it.
When you start to be optimistic, less sensitive, less worried, and less worried, your worries will decrease.
Keep exercising and taking care of your body.
Rousseau said: A weak body will never be able to cultivate a vibrant soul and intelligence. ”
If you want to have a healthy body, you can't do without a certain amount of exercise.
As long as you keep moving, even if it is a soothing exercise method such as walking and slow walking, your life can become healthier and happier.
Mr. Yang Zhenning, a physics expert, once confessed the secret of his longevity:
One is that there is no genetic disease in the family, and the other is to keep exercising.
In addition to his busy scientific research, he also does not forget to exercise, and goes out for a walk every day, often for an hour.
Later, when he got older, his legs and feet were no longer as flexible as before, but he would insist on walking back and forth at home to stretch his muscles.
It is the good habit of insisting on exercise that makes him still energetic at the age of 100.
In daily life, many people often neglect exercise due to hard work.
Or the purpose is too strong, and after exercising a few times and seeing no results, choose to give up.
As everyone knows, exercise can not only shape our body, but also regulate mood and relax nerves.
Once or twice, you may not see obvious results, but if you stick to it, the whole person will definitely become radiant and full of vitality.
As the famous painter Leonardo da Vinci said:
Exercise is the source of all life. ”
Taking exercise as a habit and cultivating a healthy body is a person's greatest confidence.
Streamline socializing, stay away from consumption.
It is written
Those who consume you, let it go; Ineffective socializing, when leaving. ”
Only by cutting off meaningless burdens can a person devote more time and energy to improving himself.
Writer Jia Pingwa once said that after he became famous, his friends inexplicably increased, and people came to visit him every day or invited him to a party.
In the long run, his life was full of noise, and he could no longer read and write quietly, and could not produce new works.
It wasn't until he later contracted hepatitis that his friends, who had been frequent before, began to avoid him for fear of being infected.
In those days of being closed, Jia Pingwa's life finally returned to purity.
It was then that he discovered that the previous socialization was purely a waste of time and energy.
After no longer interacting with them, I can really sink into creating.
The tranquil environment allowed him to write one work after another, and won one award after another.
One of the biggest illusions in life is that there are many friends and multiple paths, so I am obsessed with socializing and making connections.
The phone address book is full of unfamiliar people, who do not hesitate to sacrifice money and time many times to run around in meaningless meals.
Ineffective socialization only brings consumption, and is not beneficial to life.
The rest of your life is expensive, please learn to streamline your circle, devote your energy to personal growth, and spend it on people and things that are worthwhile.
Psychology professor Richard Wiseman writes in The Lucky Factor:
Luck is not magic, and it is not a gift from God. Whether you are lucky or not is determined by the direction of your thoughts and actions. ”
The so-called good luck is nothing more than the accumulation of good habits, which gives you the ability to attract and grasp opportunities.
What kind of behavior you have, what kind of luck you will have.
When you start to cultivate yourself, develop good habits, and forge a good attitude, life will become prosperous.
In the days to come, may we all be able to keep the vigor of our bodies, continue to move forward in continuous tempering, and get all we want.
Pay attention, and be willing to work hard not to be disappointed, and change will eventually see a better future!