Women often say "ten men have nine colors", is this sentence correct? How do we as men evaluate ourselves? Is this derogatory view a negative or tacit acquiescence?
Everyone has a love for beauty. Any man who says that he can turn a blind eye to beautiful women is deceiving himself. For example, if a beautiful flower is placed in front of you, can you not appreciate it? Can you take a few more looks? However, admiration is not the same as wanting to have, so what's the harm in looking at beautiful women on the street? Just don't stare at others, look salivating, that's too rude; You don't have to look elsewhere, pretending to be a decent gentleman, but in fact, you really want to see it. However, a man who likes to look at beautiful women does not mean that he is a womanizer.
Normal people will secrete hormones, will produce **, and have a thirst for the opposite sex. Just as a person wants to eat when he is hungry and drink water when he is thirsty, the demand for sex is also a physiological need, and sex is essential for an adult. However, there is a degree to any need of a person. Overeating is called gluttony, drinking and not getting drunk is a drunkard, indulging in **, and being lascivious is a womanizer.
Unfortunately, for a variety of reasons, many men do not have sexual partners and their normal sexual desires cannot be fulfilled. It's like being thirsty and not being able to drink water, that's a very painful thing. Some had to solve it on their own, some started the idea of other people's wives, some went to Fireworks Willow Lane, and some even developed some quirks such as **, salty pig hands, etc. People with these quirks are not necessarily, they do it because they can't release it. And solving this physiological need of all men or women is always a big problem for society.
The real womanizer is the one who has no moderation in sex, sees one and loves the other, and spends most of his energy chasing women. Such people may have excessive hormone secretion, and their physiological needs are stronger than those of ordinary people.
The ancients Yanagishita Megumi was able to sit still and not mess up, which is a typical example of bad lust. Ask ourselves, if a beautiful woman sits in your arms and is beautiful with you, what kind of performance will you have? It's really hard to say. The key is whether you can restrain yourself.
Full of warm thoughts**. When a person is full of food and drink and has nothing to do, he may focus on it. If a person has no other hobbies and no other things to consume energy, this person may also have a particularly strong interest in women. This is the manifestation of lust.
Lust is naturally bad. Zeng Guofan admits that he is lustful, and his method is to divert attention. When you see a beautiful woman, don't think about her and focus on doing other things to restrain **.
There is a knife on the head of the color word, we men must be cautious!