My monthly salary is 3,000, and my mother-in-law partially asked me to cook the Chinese New Year's Eve reunion dinner for 16 people alone, and she said a word at the dinner table, and I overturned the table.
Wen Bei Gongzi.
On Chinese New Year's Eve, our store is not closed, and the end time can be advanced from half past seven to four o'clock.
As soon as I got off work at four o'clock, my husband came to pick me up and go back to my hometown to go back to the countryside for the New Year today.
Along the way, I leaned on the car to take a nap, my son and daughter writhed excitedly, and I screamed before they quieted down.
My husband said that the things were ready, just go home and cook directly, I nodded, didn't open my eyes, closed my eyes and recuperated, and I would go to the battlefield in a while.
Sure enough, when I arrived at my mother-in-law's house, everyone was there, sitting and chatting with melon seeds, watching TV, and playing with mobile phones.
Even if I'm mentally prepared, I'm still a little depressed when I look at her as a matter of course, but it's better to forget about the New Year.
After working in the kitchen for a long time, I finally made a large table of dishes before 8 o'clock in the evening.
My name is Xiaomin, I am 26 years old this year, I have been married to my husband Wuqiao for 5 years, and I have a son and a daughter.
The two of us belonged to free love, we met through friends, he was in the army at the time, I had a natural admiration for my brother at that time, he was a soldier for two years and came back from the army, and we got married.
My mother-in-law's family had no bride price, no car and house, I was still young at that time, and I firmly believed that I was full of love and water, and I didn't know how to twist and turn in the world.
There was no bride price, and my mother-in-law didn't think I was considerate, on the contrary, in her eyes, I was a bargain for his son, and I was pregnant just after I got married, and she asked me to cook for her.
I went straight back to my mother's house, and when I gave birth to the child, she didn't help me take it, saying that she still had a task to complete.
My husband has an older brother and a younger brother, and my mother-in-law helps my brother take care of the children in her hometown and ignores us.
I can't help it, I am alone at home with a baby, there is no house, we rented a house in the county, at that time with the children to run the business, plus the money earned by my husband will be enough to spend.
Last year, I sent my son and daughter to kindergarten, and I got a job in a cake shop, and the salary of 3,000 in a small county town is a lot.
After my mother-in-law learned about it, she also said that I was unproductive, and I didn't earn as much as her eldest daughter-in-law, so no, my sister-in-law had someone to help take her children, and I went to work in a garment factory alone, six or seven thousand a month.
And who do I have, two years ago, my mother helped take care of the child, I was a little more relaxed, my mother-in-law ignored us, and the child was sent back to his hometown for two days, and he was sick and hospitalized.
In the past few years of marriage, I don't have no grudges in my heart, but I'm the kind of person who is very good at comforting myself, I can't get along with my mother-in-law, and it's better if she doesn't help bring it.
At present, the best we can maintain is to meet for the New Year and have a reunion dinner.
In the past few years of marriage, I have been making the reunion dinner for the Chinese New Year's Eve, on the one hand, the whole family has the best craftsmanship for me, on the other hand, my mother-in-law specified, I know that she wants to grind me, but for my husband, for the sake of getting along only once a year, I endured it, anyway, cooking is also a pleasure for me.
Unexpectedly, this year, because of a sentence from my mother-in-law at the dinner table, I overturned the table.
There was a plate of salt and pepper prawns on the dinner table, and there were 16 people on the table, and a plate of prawns happened to be 16.
Originally, one person ate well, because my daughter loves to eat, and I have some seafood allergies and can't eat shrimp, so I gave the shrimp that belonged to me to my daughter, but I didn't expect my husband's brother's son to see the shrimp in his daughter's bowl.
The little boy is a year older than my children, and he already has several in his bowl, so he has to cry and make trouble, but the daughter doesn't give it, and the mother-in-law takes it away from the daughter's bowl without authorization, and says what shrimp the daughter eats.
Looking at my daughter's tearful appearance, I hated it and said, "Don't cry, go home and your mother will do it for you!" ”
The mother-in-law said that it was unlucky for her daughter to cry during the New Year, so she asked us to get off the table, which me off, and I flipped the table on the spot.
A table of soup and water spilled down, and I said to my mother-in-law: "I made the rice, if I can't eat it, don't eat it, this family doesn't welcome us, and we won't come back in the future!" ”
After saying that, I took my daughter and son and left.
Originally, because everyone was chatting when cooking, it was already very annoying for me to wash, chop and fry vegetables alone, and my mother-in-law showed her partiality so blatantly.
Women are weak, but mothers are strong.
My temper is not too good, in previous years, I endured this sentence for the New Year, but seeing that my patience has become weak and deceitful in the eyes of my mother-in-law, so why put up with her!
Ten years of seeing my mother-in-law and ten years of seeing my daughter-in-law, she has never helped me a point, and I am not a family that has anything to do with her, I have survived the most difficult years, and now she still wants to pose in front of me.
Speaking of which, it's all my own habit.
I took my son and daughter back to my home in the city and had a quiet New Year, and my husband came back not long after.
I have already decided that I will not go back for the Chinese New Year in the future, and even if I do, I will not want to cook for them again.
There is a definite amount of affection between people, and when it is consumed, it will be gone.
In the new year, I just want to take care of myself and my children, be filial to my parents who truly love me, and as for others, I won't be nosy!