Society is always very complicated, and the relationships between people are also varied. Some people think that as long as they are good to others, they can get their love and respect, but in reality this is not the case.
You see, some people are very kind, but their relationships are just not very stable;On the contrary, those who seem to be indifferent can be like fish in water in the crowd. This actually shows that the core of interpersonal relationships is not simple kindness, but strong and weak relationships. "Strength" here refers not only to material advantages, but also to social status, wealth, knowledge, skills, and so on.
On the big stage of interpersonal relationships, the relationship between the strong and the weak is not simply about helping each other. In fact, there are many subtle power contrasts behind it, which determine the active and passive in the relationship. The key is not how good you are to others, but where you stand on this stage. The strong are usually able to take the initiative, while the weak are often reactive. In this brutal arena, the contrast of forces directly affects the success or failure of interpersonal relationships. The weak can be marginalized, while the strong can influence the situation.
If you want to have an advantage in relationships, you have to work hard to increase your leverage. Wise men will use these chips to achieve interpersonal goals, accumulate resources, and build a large social network.
We can all be strong or weak in different situations and relationships. Therefore, it is important to stay humble, keep learning to improve yourself, and adapt to the changing environment. At the same time, it is also necessary to respect others, do not judge others with strength or weakness, and establish equal and healthy interpersonal relationships with sincerity and kindness.
Although the core of interpersonal relationships is the relationship between strength and weakness, we cannot let this stop us from giving up kindness and kindness to others. While improving yourself, treat others with sincerity and kindness, and build a relationship of mutual respect and understanding. In this way, we can win real love and respect in a complex society and realize interpersonal values.
Personal opinion, for reference only.