In life, it takes a smart mind to "get" and courage to "let go".
Desires are the signposts we set for ourselves on the road, and staring at them will give the journey a sense of direction. But when there are too many road signs, it becomes a roadblock.
Don't let your desires exceed the load you can carry.
Follow the "golden mean" in life and work, which can achieve the effect of impartiality, avoid the embarrassment of "too much", and handle the affairs properly and satisfactorily.
People are accustomed to using prejudice instead of rational thinking, which stems from a fixed pattern of thinking.
People with strong personal biases like to have preconceived ideas, and this kind of mindset seriously affects people's cognition, which is not conducive to improving ability and optimizing the situation.
The biggest enemy for everyone is the prejudice inherent in their own mind.
As for the opinions of others, you should decide whether to accept them after your own careful consideration.
Today's decisions are linked to the will and actions of yesterday's decisions, and tomorrow's decisions are linked to today's actions.
Decision-making needs to be paid attention to: to ensure comprehensive decision-making, decision-making is not comprehensive, including: one-sided decision-making, only consider one of the factors, do not consider other factors, take care of one or the other: the strategy is incoherent, there is no next step after considering this step; Rigidity, when external conditions change, decision-making does not change accordingly; Brainstorming, choose from a plurality of schemes, decision-making to have a number of feasible alternatives, a scheme can not compare the advantages and disadvantages, there is no room for choice, multiple scheme selection is an important principle of scientific decision-making.