Coaching is to support clients by listening and asking, the level of listening and asking determines the level of coaching, asking strong questions is what every coach wants to do, so how can you ask strong questions?
In my opinion, "asking powerful questions" is an outcome, and we need to find a path to that outcome. In the current coach training, there will be a lot of training on the skills of asking questions, and sometimes it is effective, but it does not solve the problem at the root.
If "coaching" is also a science, how can we learn it well? This needs to be found in the teachings of the ancient sages, and there is a description of learning in the "Rules": "The attitude of learning, the first is to aspire; The second is to practice; The third is that the order of learning is very important, we must first cultivate the foundation of morality, and then learn technology; Fourth, the method of learning should be in-depth and long-term practice. ”
What the saints taught us is to "first grow the foundation of morality, and then learn technology", this is the way! "Only with good thoughts can we see things as they are", if the coach has good thoughts and sees things as they are, can't he ask strong questions?
It seems that being a coach is destined to follow a path of spiritual practice, treating clients with complete altruism, and working hard to cultivate one's own compassion and good thoughts, so that one can see more and more of the truth, and help others as well as oneself.
How do you get on the path of cultivation through one coach after another? In the author's experience, it isAt the moment of each appointment, keep the body and mind relaxed, completely relax and maintain a high degree of concentration, with a pure altruistic heart with the customer, you can become more and more aware of the truth under the customer's iceberg, and naturally you will be able to ask powerful questions
It is not easy to relax and maintain a high level of concentration at the same time, it requires constant and consistent practice, and it is destined to follow a spiritual path.
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