February** Dynamic Incentive Plan We live in the state of etiquette, and human relations are inseparable from the word "etiquette".
Gift-giving is a way to express friendship and enhance affection;
But there is also a certain degree of attention to gift-giving, and not everything can be given to others.
Giving away some things will make the other party misunderstand your original meaning, and seriously affect the feelings between each other, making the other party feel that you are not here to give gifts, but to provoke.
The old man said: "Don't give four gifts, give people and money", what does "four don't give" refer to?
Let's take a look and avoid embarrassment when giving gifts!
01.I do not send a clock
In Chinese pronunciation, "bell" and "end" are the same sound, and sending the bell also has the meaning of "sending the end";
Especially when someone else celebrates a birthday, if you don't understand the meaning of the gift clearly, giving a clock to the other party may cause dissatisfaction with the other party.
No matter what the occasion, a watch is not the first choice for gifting.
02.Fruit pears are not delivered
Giving fruit is the best, and it's not likely to go wrong with such a gift.
When visiting relatives and friends, I don't know what gift to buy, buy a beautiful and decent fruit basket, and feel that I have a face when I give a gift myself, and the person who receives the gift will also feel happy.
But there is a taboo in sending fruits, you must not send pears to each other, because "pear" is homophonic to "leave", which means leaving and separating.
If you have to choose, it is recommended to choose apples, which have a good meaning.
03.Valuables
In the eyes of most people, the more expensive the gift is, the more important the other party is;
But valuables should also be given to others, not everyone can give them, in the eyes of some people, your behavior is showing off or bribery.
For people with average family conditions, when they receive your expensive gifts, it will put a certain burden on them, because the next time you give them will also need to be of equal value.
Therefore, if you want to send valuables, you must also find the right object and occasion, and you can't send it to anyone or any occasion.
04.Candles
In the minds of young people, candles are a very atmospheric thing that can add some romantic atmosphere.
However, in the eyes of the older generation, candles are very unlucky gifts, they are generally used to worship gods or ancestors, and they can be mistaken for curses.
Therefore, if you give gifts during the New Year's holidays, candles also need to be avoided.
Gift-giving is also a science, not everything can be given casually, before giving a gift, you must understand clearly, the meaning and symbol of the gift, so that the other party can feel your intentions.
The gift is not the more expensive the better, the most important thing is the giver's mind, giving the right gift on the right occasion, which can not only reflect your heart, but also allow the other party to accept it with peace of mind, which is the original meaning of gifting!