Whenever you mention Luyu, do you immediately echo the familiar melody of "Luyu has an appointment" in your mind?Or is it the advertising sentence that has been played badly, "use your brain often, drink six more walnuts"?That's right, the golden phoenix of Communication University of China soared into the sky, not only gaining a firm foothold in CCTV, but also sitting firmly on the throne of "Interview First Sister" with his sharp and warm hosting style. 
But there are many people who are popular, and as his reputation rises, Lu Yu seems to be gradually troubled by an "arrogant" mood. This kind of "arrogance" is not the kind of domineering that we often say, but a manifestation of "low emotional intelligence" that is overconfident in front of the camera and speaks without thinking. This kind of performance is especially obvious in some of her program speeches, and sometimes even makes the audience scratch their heads and cry and laugh. 
So, the question is, how did this former "interview queen" step by step from the altar to the edge of "funny host"?Is her talent not enough to support her status?Or is her emotional intelligence really not enough to deal with the complex entertainment industry?
Under the spotlight, Huo Jianhua's eyes flashed with a different kind of brilliance. The "Luyu Appointment" in 2018 was his long-lost screen appearance, but that appearance unexpectedly aroused Lu Yu's deep emotions. Lu Yu and Huo Jianhua: Tears and past feelings in the interview When Huo Jianhua mentioned the birth of his daughter lightly, his joy and excitement poured out like a tide: "Finally, there is something that really belongs to me, and that is my daughter." This sentence, like a stone thrown into the lake, aroused ripples in Lu Yu's heart. Her eyes were slightly red, and tears were rolling in her eyes, but she resisted it to let it slip. 
Lu Yu's emotional defense line seemed to collapse a little at that moment, and she tried to hide her inner fluctuations with a smile, but she still couldn't hold back that trace of tears. She half-jokingly said, "You told me that you want children." However, the regret and helplessness between the words made people feel the loneliness and longing in her heart. 
Lu Yu, a strong woman who is famous in the interview industry, has an unknown fragility in her feelings. She has experienced ups and downs in her relationship, three relationships, two marriages, each time she was deeply invested, but each time she ended in regret. 
And when it comes to her first love, Zhu Lei, the man who walked through her youth with her, there will always be a soft light in her eyes. They are classmates and friends, witnesses of each other's youth, and indelible marks in each other's hearts. However, when the cruelty of reality and the uncertainty of the future hit, their relationship failed to stand the test after all, and finally parted ways. 
On the road of his career, Lu Yu walked firmly and persistently. With her outstanding talent and hard work, she successfully became one of the CCTV hosts and became the "first sister of interviews" in the hearts of countless audiences. However, on the road of affection, she has never been able to find the person who is willing to spend the rest of her life with her. The thin figure in the emotional whirlpool, the lonely soul at the peak of her career When you see Lu Yu's thin appearance now, it is hard to imagine that her face was still full of collagen in her early years. But life is like a reversal drama, in just two months, she lost 20 pounds, what kind of emotional storm is hidden behind this?
At that time, Lu Yu was in an unhappy relationship, and his life seemed to be in a quagmire. But at the trough of her life, she came up with a "bold" idea - to study abroad. In 1995, she resolutely resigned and flew to the United States alone. 
In this strange country, Lu Yu's fluent English has become her best. She gradually adapted to life here, and it was here that she met an American man. The meeting between the two seemed to be a fateful fate, and just a few months later, they entered the palace of marriage. 
However, life after marriage is not as good as imagined. Lu Yu gradually realized that the man she loved was not what she really wanted. This marriage ended in a hasty divorce, leaving an indelible scar on her soul. After returning from studying abroad, Lu Yu established "Lu Yu has an appointment", and with his unique hosting style and keen observation, he became a popular host.
It was at this time that she met her first love again. Both have experienced a failed marriage, and each other's hearts need solace. Soon, they reconciled and had another wedding. However, history is always strikingly similar. Lu Yu's career is in full swing, and she has no time and energy to run a family. The relationship between the couple has gradually worn out with the passage of time. Finally in 2014, the two embarked on the path of divorce again.
After struggling in the whirlpool of emotions for a long time, Lu Yu gradually understood a truth: life is not a fairy tale, and there is no perfect ending. She began to put more energy into her career and strive to become better. The Road to Interviews: From Hot to Overshadowed In a program, Lu Yu's interview subject was a poor child from a remote mountainous area. When the other party revealed that he could only eat steamed buns and pickles brought from home at school, Lu Yu's reaction was unexpected.
Puzzled, she asked, "Why don't you eat meat?"The child replied helplessly: "The price of meat is too expensive." ”
At this time, Lu Yu's response was even more shocking: "The price of meat, do you still know the price of meat?"I don't know. As soon as this remark came out, it immediately aroused strong dissatisfaction among netizens, who accused her of "low emotional intelligence".
However, this is only the beginning of the decline in Luyu's reputation. In a later show, she even asked the "father of hybrid rice" if she knew Jay Chou and other star-chasing questions. After learning that the other party didn't know each other, she actually said: "You can't keep up with the times." As soon as this remark came out, it immediately caused an uproar.
Netizens have been upset with Yuan Lao, believing that celebrities cannot be compared with people who have made significant contributions to the country. Even Peng Lin, a professor at Tsinghua University, couldn't stand it and scolded her: "There is nothing wrong with her legs, how can she be so arrogant?"”
This series of "mistakes" made Lu Yu's reputation fall to the bottom. At the same time, with the emergence of more and more excellent programs, her talk shows have also fallen into a "precarious" situation. In the end, the show disappeared from the screen, and Lu Yu also returned to ordinary life. ConclusionTime flies, and now she has entered the 53-year-old stage of life. From the former "screen queen" to the current enjoyment, the span in between can be simply summarized by the passage of more than 20 years?
Back then, Lu Yu's name was closely tied to a well-known interview program. That show is like a double-edged sword in her hand, on the one hand, it cuts through obstacles for her and makes her stand out in the hosting world;On the other hand, it also invisibly painted her as a prison, so that her image was "frozen" to a certain extent.
Now she may no longer appear on the screen frequently, but who can say that her life is not exciting?A return to calm may be a higher luxury for her. In this impetuous era, it is not a rare realm to be able to calm down and savor the bits and pieces of life?