In a distant mountain village, there was a child herding sheep. Because the adults in the village were busy with their livelihoods, they rarely had time to play with him, so he often herded the sheep alone. In order to get everyone's attention, he often shouted "The wolf is coming!" ”
At first, the villagers would nervously run to help, but as the number of times increased, the villagers gradually became numb to his shouts and stopped paying attention.
Until one day, the wolf really came. The child shouted in fright, "The wolf is coming!" But this time, no one came to help. In the end, most of the child's flock was eaten by the wolf.
This story teaches us that irresponsible deception and gaming can eventually lose the trust of others.
Back to reality, if you deliberately disconnect, your boyfriend may react like the villagers who shouted "wolf is coming" for the first time.
1. Worry and anxiety. He will try to contact you through various means, such as texting, calling, socializing, etc. Whenever the phone rings or the screen lights up, he will look forward to seeing if it's your message.
If he can't reach you right away, he'll keep guessing about the problems or troubles you might have. This worry and anxiety may prevent him from focusing on other things, affecting his work and life.
2. He will guess the reason. Will your boyfriend start to wonder why you suddenly disconnected, is it because of some conflict between you? Or did he do something wrong? Or do you have other troubles?
This speculation and doubt triggers his insecurity and causes him to fall into confusion and self-blame.
If this happens frequently, your boyfriend may lose trust in you.
He will question your feelings for him, thinking that you may not really be serious about him, or that you don't think the relationship is important. This distrust and suspicion can undermine the foundation of trust between you and lead to a rift in the relationship.
If you often deliberately disconnect or disappear suddenly, you may leave your boyfriend with the impression of being irresponsible and unreliable. Such behavior will seriously affect your image in his heart and reduce his respect and love for you.
Love is based on mutual trust and honesty. If you really cherish the relationship and care about your boyfriend's feelings, then be cautious about deliberately disconnecting from each other. Running away won't solve the problem, it can make things worse.
When problems or conflicts arise between you, you should communicate openly and honestly and try to resolve them. Maintaining honest and transparent communication will help you grow together, solve problems, and make your relationship stronger. Remember, love requires effort and maintenance from both parties. It is only through honesty, understanding, and tolerance that you can walk through every stage of life together. The New Year's nagging parents are short