Mother-in-law dating son-in-law, daughterBreak up the relationship.
The longevity of a marriage requires the joint efforts and maintenance of both parties, and mutual tolerance is a very important part of this. Some couples have disagreements because they get together less or leave more, or because of small conflicts, but as long as both parties can be honest with each other and tolerate each other, it is possible to avoid the breakdown of the marriage.
Recently, I saw a couple who insisted on the AA system for 60 years and finally divorced, and the wife said happily: "I can finally go and eat Xi Noodles!" This example tells us that marriage needs both partners to work together, tolerate and support each other in order to go further.
01 In Taiwan, there is a female screenwriter whose divorce reason is jaw-dropping, it turned out to be because her husband and mother-in-law have a close relationship, which made netizens shout: Destroy the three views!
Jiang Ping's family environment was not good since she was a child, and her parents lacked attention to her. After she grew up freely, she entered the entertainment industry through a part-time model at the age of 17, acting, modeling, and often appearing in front of and behind the scenes as a screenwriter and producer.
Years of hard work have made her famous in the entertainment industry, and her career has risen steadily. She met a screenwriter who was 14 years older than herself, and in the face of this mature and steady man, they fell in love at first sight, and the two quickly fell in love.
Despite the opposition of her family and friends, she married the man she loved dearly and gave birth to a son.
02 However, after marriage, the couple spent less and less time together because of their busy work. Coupled with the difficulties in her husband's career, her mood became very unstable, and she even asked Jiang Ping to hand over all her salary to him.
The petty quarrels between the two became more frequent, and the relationship became more and more strained. On the way home once, I ran into a neighbor and carefully reminded me that the women in my family came and went frequently, and it seemed that she had a good relationship with her husband.
Jiang Ping couldn't help but doubt her husband's loyalty, so she suddenly came home during a break from work. Unexpectedly, it was her mother who greeted her. Her mother gave birth to her before she was 20 years old, and she also pays great attention to maintenance on weekdays, so she looks similar to her age and is very beautiful.
This sudden "surprise inspection" revealed an unacceptable fact. Before marriage, Jiang Ping had found out that her husband was cheating, but under the bitter pleading of the other party, she still chose to forgive.
In a quarrel, Jiang Ping repeatedly asked her ex-husband if he already had another woman outside. The ex-husband at that time was emotional and said fiercely: "I can get your mother and daughter at one time." ”
I thought that my husband's angry words were just impulsive at the time, but I didn't expect it to be the truth. After being arrested, the mother and daughter shirked each other's responsibilities and accused each other of taking the initiative to accost.
What's even more infuriating is that the husband also defended: "Even if I don't do this, your mother will go to someone else, and I am helping you." Such rhetoric is unacceptable.
Although her biological mother gave her life, because of this marriage, Jiang Ping did not speak to her mother for 20 years, whether at home or at the funeral or her brother's wedding, she chose to remain silent.
However, as time passed, Jiang Ping began to reflect on her decision and felt very remorseful. She thinks that if she hadn't chosen to marry such a disgusting man in the first place, this would not have happened.
Although 20 years have passed, she still hopes to let go of the past, face the relationship with her mother, and try to find a solution.
Remember, Mother is our benefactor, and only when we really see it can we let go of the mustard in our hearts. In life, let us learn to look at others, not only to see our own shortcomings, but also to pay attention to the shortcomings of others.