When I graduated from college in 1990, I initially thought I would be like most college students, looking for a job after four years on campus, but my life took an unexpected turn.
Before college, my academic performance was not outstanding, and it was a bit difficult for me to study, but I was talented in sports, and I was very good at basketball, and it was because of this specialty that I had the opportunity to enter a high school in the city.
After high school, I continued to excel in basketball, representing the school with three individual championships and two individual runners-up, as well as a team championship.
Later, I successfully completed four years of university life, but not everyone can find a satisfactory job after graduation, and it was not easy for me at that time, but the god of luck favored me.
When I graduated, an elementary school in the city needed a basketball coach, and the Education Bureau chose me to give it a try, thanks to my expertise in basketball.
But because it was a special situation, I was just a trainee coach, and I had to work for a year to see if I could be regularized, which was a rare opportunity for me at that time, and I was determined to seize it.
When I first arrived, I was the youngest teacher in the school, and I was also a basketball coach, so the students in the school liked me very much, and we got to know each other very quickly.
It didn't take long for the school to transfer a younger teacher, who taught math and was still a sunny boy.
But in the 90s, rural education resources were relatively scarce, and the children's least favorite course was math class, and the math teacher was so young, so the young male teacher became the target of the students' spoofs.
In order to help him, I took advantage of my "position" in the hearts of the students and took the initiative to listen to math lessons with them in class, under the pretext that I wanted to refresh my math knowledge.
The students saw that I was learning math, so they gradually became interested, and with me in class, they didn't dare to mess around like they used to.
In fact, the reason is very simple, the reason why everyone is disgusted with knowledge is because of their own incomprehension, once they have mastered the basic knowledge, the desire to explore subsequent knowledge will increase with personal initiative.
The male math teacher is very grateful for my help, so he will often chat with me, invite me to dinner, and I will also invite back, and over time, the relationship between the two of us will get better and better.
His name is Li Xuan, this surname is more common, and there are several families with the surname Li in our nearby villages, he only said that he came from the town, and I didn't ask much.
I'm two years older than Li Xuan, and the two of us are each other's only friends at school, plus we often hang out together, so everyone from teachers to students is making jokes about the two of us, thinking that we are good buddies.
I actually feel a little awkward about everyone's jokes, because my family conditions are not good, and I only graduated from high school, and Li Xuan graduated from a regular normal school, I feel a bit high.
But Li Xuan was not unhappy when he heard everyone say that we were good buddies, although he didn't express his position, he behaved naturally.
Later, during the school holiday, there was no one in the school, so I took over the task of patrolling the school for a few days because my home was relatively close to the school, and I went to the school to walk around if I had nothing to do.
As a result, at night, I found that the lights were still on in the school's teachers' dormitory, and the room was Li Xuan's.
I walked in, curious why he hadn't come home, but worried that it would cause unnecessary misunderstandings.
But he heard the movement outside the door and guessed that it was me, because I was probably the only one in the school at this time.
You come in for a moment. ”
I heard Li Xuan call me in, and his voice sounded a little weak.
When I entered the house, I saw him lying on the bed with a painful expression, his face was pale and sweating, I quickly asked him what was wrong, and he just said that his stomach hurt badly.
I suddenly remembered that a classmate had a similar situation in college before, probably acute gastroenteritis, so I quickly helped him up, and at this time, I didn't care about the difference between men and women, so I picked him up and ran to the hospital.
The hospital is still some distance from the school, three or four kilometers, and the road in the countryside is not very easy to walk, I am a little physically exhausted halfway through, in order to be able to rush to the hospital quickly, not to delay his **, I gritted my teeth, moved his hands from the back to his hips, and then continued to move forward hard.
Li Xuan didn't resist this, but the hands that hooked your neck became tighter and tighter.
When you were about to get to the hospital, you said to him, "Your hands are so tight that I can't breathe." ”
Li Xuan was amused by you, and then pretended to be angry and said to you: "I just want to strangle you, who let you take advantage of me." ”
Only then did you react that you put your hands on other people's buttocks all the way, and suddenly felt a little weak, and as soon as your hand was loosened, you almost threw him to the ground, and quickly held him again, but he didn't resist, but hugged him tighter.
After almost two hours in the hospital, Li Xuan finally recovered some of his vitality. After recovering, he asked you to help him call the town, and said to find Secretary Li.
* The man on the other end heard you say that Li Xuan had just undergone acute gastroenteritis surgery, so he said that he would come over immediately.
Soon after, a middle-aged man arrived at the hospital, he walked straight to Li Xuan's bedside, anxiously asked about the situation, and you learned that Li Xuan was the secretary's son.
After this incident, the relationship between you and Li Xuan quickly warmed up, and you quickly confirmed your relationship and became a happy couple.
But Li Xuan completely concealed this relationship from his father, for fear that his father would know about the relationship between the two of you, which was obviously not a good sign.
However, there is no impermeable wall in the world, and the teachers at the school soon knew that the two of you were in a relationship, and they all said that the two of you were really a match made in heaven.
Soon after, the winter vacation came, and you were separated from each other for nearly a month, and you also realized what it means to "not see each other for a day, such as every other autumn". The two of you are closer in the new semester, which perfectly explains what it means to be like glue, but soon after Yan Ting tells you the bad news, her dad is going to be transferred.
You understand that her father may not look down on you, but you didn't care too much about it at first, thinking that love was a matter between you and Yan Ting, and had nothing to do with her father, but later you realized that you were too naïve.
A few days later, the principal of the school found you, of course he also knew that you and Yan Ting were in a relationship, but he had something to say, and later you realized that the principal was hinting that you should not be with Yan Ting.
After Secretary Yan was transferred, he quickly summoned you alone, and he asked you to leave Yan Ting very bluntly, and also mentioned that your probationary period will come soon, so let you think about your future.
You are very angry when you hear such words, but more often than not, you feel a deep sense of helplessness.
At that time, a stable job in the system, especially as a teacher, was highly sought after by many people, and your performance in school was always excellent, so it was natural to become a regular employee.
After that day, you fell into deep thought every night and began to deliberately avoid Yan Ting, but one night you suddenly figured it out and understood that love and love are not the same.
Like is just a feeling, it can't stand the test, more than a billion people in the country, billions of people around the world, we will have a feeling of liking for countless people at any time, but love is different, that is a responsibility, you understand that between you and Yan Ting is love, not simply like.
You told Yan Ting all the things about her father, she was not surprised, but she had already guessed it, but she was determined to face it with you, and at this time God favored you again.
You have a best comrade-in-arms in the three years you have been in the army, his name is Bao, and you suddenly received a letter from him, saying that he opened a factory by himself after leaving the army, and the current business is very good, and the prospects are also very good, but there is not enough manpower, and I thought of you at the first time.
You took this letter and discussed it seriously with Yan Ting, and now that you think about it, the two of them were young and vigorous at that time, and they came on a trip that they said they would go, so you and Yan Ting embarked on the road to Shenzhen.
The early days of entrepreneurship were very difficult, but you and Yan Ting persevered, and Bao was also very good to the two of you, in fact, the two of you have little ability and talent in these things of entrepreneurship, mainly because Bao gave you enough opportunities to try, you have wanted Bao to find another job more than once, because his ability is really limited, but his repeated insistence allowed you to really take the lead later.
After a few years of hard work, you have opened a branch, you have also become the factory director, and Yan Ting also has a happy family of four, you also returned to your hometown, the old mother of the family is unwilling to come to the city, so she built a new house in the countryside, and the estrangement between you and the secretary's father-in-law has also been eliminated with the happiness of his daughter.