I know that many men feel that they have been with their wives for a long time and have no passion, and when they turn around, they are fascinated by the warblers outside, and they want to find another thrill.
But flowering is instinct, and restraint is upbringing. You men are not the only men in this world who are attracted to other people of the opposite sex. Women too. But your wife can still do the same thing, is it because she can't do without you? Yes, it's because he knows what it means to be polite, righteous and honest, your wife didn't mess around outside like you, not because she had no capital, not because of how good you are, but because she understands that heartbeat is not love, but heart. You can't get divorced every time you get excited. If you never learn to cherish it, you don't deserve true love.
When you feel that there is no novelty anymore, and you think that your wife is not as interesting and beautiful as outsiders, you don't want to think about how you fell in love with her in the first place. In fact, the so-called novelty is just that people who are tired of loving themselves play with people who are tired of others playing, and playing around is just leftovers. You think the new shoes look good, but the old shoes are actually comfortable and easy to wear. Wise men understand that all the pounding will eventually become dull.
If you don't need firewood, rice, oil and salt for marriage, you don't need to have a baby and take care of a baby, you don't need to pay attention to the trivialities of life, you just need to eat, drink, have fun, talk about poetry and distance. She has it the way you want. The person who accompanies you through the wind and snow may not be able to stand the firewood, rice, oil and salt, and the person who accompanies you through the firewood, rice, oil and salt must have given you the wind and snow. Someone is always better, but right now is the best. I hope you understand this sentence. Emotion