When a friendship is a third party, here are some ways to consider:
1.*Communicate and Listen**: Be open and honest about your feelings with your friends. Listen to the other person's thoughts and opinions, and understand their relationship with the third party.
2.*Respect each other**: Respect your friends' choices and decisions, and don't force them to choose between you and a third party.
3.*Stay independent**: Continue to develop your other friendships and hobbies and don't rely too much on them.
4.*Adjust your mindset**: Try to look at the situation with a positive mindset, maybe the presence of a third person can bring new elements and opportunities to your friendship.
5.*Find common ground**: Try to establish some common ground with a third party to increase mutual understanding and communication.
6.*Give each other space**: Don't interfere too much with friends and third parties, so that everyone has a certain amount of freedom and space.
7.*Value your feelings**: Pay attention to your feelings, and if a change in friendship makes you feel uncomfortable or unhappy, consider whether you need to adjust the way you spend time with your friends.
8.*Stay Calm**: Avoid making impulsive decisions or actions when you are emotionally charged so as not to hurt the friendship.
Most importantly, respect everyone's choices and feelings, and take care of your own emotions and needs while trying to maintain friendships. If the problem can't be resolved, or if the change in the friendship is negatively affecting you, you may need to reassess the importance and continuity of the friendship. At the same time, it is also important to remember that friendships are diverse and changing, and new friendships and relationships may emerge in life.