About being strong.
watched a lot of interviews with Ma Yili, all of which were about Ma Yili's strength, and Ma Yili admitted that he was strong. She talked a lot about the benefits of being strong.
Ma Yili said that she is very strong, but strong is only in the work, when you need to make decisions, you have to be strong, because the first is to save time; second, efficient work; Third, go straight to the goal.
She likes this way of being strong, accepting being strong, but not accepting that others think she is only strong, in fact, she has other shining points.
Ma Yili is a good mother, since she became a mother, she never goes out to socialize at night, there is no entertainment, that is, whoever wants to talk to her about work, just talk about work, don't ask her for dinner or anything, she is not free, she directly refuses to socialize.
Even if it is a very important meal to go out, she will arrive home at half past eight in the evening, and she has to accompany the children. Originally, when she went outside to film, she didn't have time to communicate with her children, so she had to keep time with her children and watch them grow up.
So you have to sacrifice your time, go to bed later than the children, wait for the children to fall asleep, and then turn on your phone and read the script in the dark.
It is indeed very difficult for a woman to carry two children, so she has to be strong, and strong is not necessarily a derogatory term.
Break the safe zone.
When the host asked Ma Yili: "When your days feel lower and lower energy and no vitality, is there any suggestion to break the game"?
Ma Yili said: "I think it depends on the people, there are really people who are willing to stay in such a comfortable zone all the time, they at least feel that it is a safe zone."
The moderator asked again: "Honestly, are you willing to get out of this safe zone"?
Ma Yili said: "I am the person who can't go on like this, I am the one who must jump out of the safety zone." Because I feel like it's an escape, it's a way for you to escape from your own inner voice, and I feel like I have the ability to jump out."
The moderator then asked, "So you can burn yourself again?" ”
I'm an actor, if I don't have any of that, how can I interpret other people's lives? I have to be emotionally charged and extremely sensitive at all times." Ma Yili said frankly.
When asked how to vent her emotions, Ma Yili answered truthfully: "Everyone has emotions, and they need to have emotions, which is not a mistake." I need to vent it, no matter what way I use it, even if it's a blind chat with someone, or pour out the bitter water. ”
Today's Ma Yili is not the same as when she was young, she has changed a lot in life, she has always been coquettish since she was a child, she will look down on people who love to be coquettish, and she always thinks that why are girls so twisted and coquettish?
Later, she didn't think so, she was coquettish and then soft, people were comfortable, and then she was very calm, and she didn't care too much about face.
This may be the result of interpreting a lot of characters!
Getting along with your parents.
Ma Yili was born in an ordinary family in Shanghai, since she was a child, her mother taught her the use of money, there are ten yuan can only be used for two or three yuan, the rest of the money to be saved, in order to deal with the unexpected extra money, even if Ma Yili earns a lot of money, she will still share it with her parents, so that her parents can also feel the taste of money.
Her parents love her very much, she said, parents give you the satisfaction of love, which will make a child feel very secure, especially for a girl, if there is a very, very loving father, this girl will be very confident to live in the world; If there is a mother who loves her very, very much, this girl will know how to respect others and will know how to love herself.
Ma Yili's parents love each other, so she passed on this love to her two daughters.
Ma Yili once said that many female viewers only understood a truth after ** "Flowers": If a man really loves you, he will support you, will do his best to deal with all the problems, and will desperately stand in front of you and not let anyone do any harm to you. He will want you to win, not let you lose.
This perspective emphasizes how a man who truly loves you should treat a woman. Ma Yili interprets Reiko in "Flowers" very well, and she has similarities with Reiko.
As for the child's father's article, he has his life, and now Ma Yili is living well, she has the confidence to live well, and she also has the confidence to be strong.