Behind the prosperity of the city, a marriage is quietly staging a heartbreaking drama. When Gu Jia in "Thirty Only" found out that her husband Xu Huanshan was cheating in marriage, her world collapsed instantly. But in this marital crisis, Gu Jia did not choose to divorce immediately, but tried to redeem it. She subconsciously made excuses for Xu Huanshan and tried to understand his behavior. When she realized that there was a problem in her marriage, although it was painful and collapsed, she still remembered the love between the two for more than ten years. At this time, Gu Jia was not completely disappointed in her marriage, but had the mentality of solving the problem to deal with the mess left by Xu Huanshan. She took the initiative to ask Lin Youyou to come out to talk, hoping to get to know the woman who ruined her marriage. However, in the confrontation between the three, Gu Jia realized that her marriage was not a sudden problem, but a hidden danger had already been buried.
Under the guise of "true love", Lin Youyou, as a junior, confidently accused the original partner Gu Jia of not understanding Xu Huanshan. In her opinion, Xu Huanshan couldn't stand Gu Jia's desire to control, and the reason why the two didn't divorce was just because of their children. Lin Youyou thought he knew Xu Huanshan, and thought that Xu Huanshan's greatest pleasure was to eat, but Gu Jia didn't even let him eat dinner, which was a kind of torture. And Lin Youyou, who accompanied Xu Huanshan to taste all the food, regarded himself as salvation, wishful thinking that he was Xu Huanshan's true love.
How innocent is Gu Jia? She knew that Xu Huanshan had fatty liver, so serious that he wouldn't even accept him for an insurance upgrade. For the sake of his health, she restricted his diet and even starved with him. She never expected that her careful care of Xu Huanshan, in the other party's mind, was actually an airtight oppression, which made him feel painful. In the name of love, Lin Youyou let Xu Huanshan indulge his desires; Gu Jia is dedicated to taking care of Xu Huanshan's body, hoping that he will be healthy and safe. If Xu Huanshan's ignorance made Gu Jia's heart ache, then the moment Lin Youyou ripped off his clothes to reveal the blue fireworks, he completely broke Gu Jia's psychological defense.
"Blue Fireworks" represents the love between Xu Huanshan and Gu Jia. This is the goal that the two found together during their relationship. Gu Jia accompanied Xu Huanshan from an unknown fireworks designer to the owner of a fireworks company. It can be said that the fireworks not only witnessed the love between the two, but also made their common family and career prosperous. Therefore, when Gu Jia learned that Xu Huanshan had mapped the love between the two to Lin Youyou, he couldn't help but be disgusted and almost collapsed.
It was the moment when Lin Youyou tore off his clothes to reveal the blue fireworks, which completely broke Gu Jia's psychological defense. This image was like a heavy punch slamming into her heart, tearing her heart apart in an instant. The dream of blue fireworks that he once pursued with Xu Huanshan has now become Lin Youyou's capital to show off. She stood in front of Gu Jia as a victor and ruthlessly tore apart the marriage disguise that she had been managing with her heart for many years.
At this moment, Gu Jia couldn't bear it anymore. She realizes that the marriage has come to an end and can no longer be repaired. The love in the past was too beautiful, for Gu Jia, the happy family of the two can continue, not because of the support of money, but because they love each other and have a common goal. Now Lin Youyou's appearance has cut a hole in Gu Jia's marriage that he thought was happy. When the cruel truth was revealed, her relationship with Xu Huanshan could no longer heal.
Gu Jia chose to cut through the mess quickly, and the long pain was better than the short pain, and ended the marriage neatly. In a real marriage, it is normal for husband and wife to have quarrels and contradictions, and it is too normal to tolerate and understand each other and solve problems proactively, so as not to make the contradictions bigger and bigger. Gu Jia treats marriage as tolerant, she is willing to clean up the mess for her husband, but it does not mean that she has no principles and bottom line, and can tolerate the other half trampling on her dignity.
There is no winner in this contest of marriages. Lin Youyou's appearance made Gu Jia realize that her love and marriage were irretrievable. And Xu Huanshan also paid the price because of his infidelity, losing his wife who loved him deeply and a happy family. There are no absolute winners in this relationship, and everyone has to bear the consequences for their choices.
There are no absolute winners in this relationship, and everyone has to bear the consequences for their choices. The bottom line of marriage is loyalty, and once this bottom line is crossed, it means the end of the relationship. Xu Huanshan's cheating behavior has touched the bottom line of marriage, he betrayed Gu Jia, and also betrayed their love and family. Although Gu Jia was in pain, she finally made the most suitable choice for herself, ended her wrong marriage, and welcomed a new life.
In real life, we must also stick to our inner principles and bottom line, cherish the people around us, and don't let the tragedy of love repeat. Only mutual respect and understanding can make love long-lasting and fulfilling, and marriage a haven of happiness rather than a source of pain.