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My name is Gu Gu, I am 28 years old and I have been a flight attendant for eight years in a state-owned airline.

A lot of things happened to give birth to a baby last year, but I didn't expect the aunt I invited to be weird, and she even made trouble at the police station.

For the sake of the child I resolutely resigned, stopped running around life, I believe that any choice of my own is the best arrangement, a person's life can have a variety of ways to live and value, flight attendant is just a glamorous career, with a baby can also be very exciting.

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In 1995, I was born in an ordinary family in Jurong City, next door to Nanjing, and I was the only child in the family.

When I was a child, my parents went out to work to make money, and they didn't have time to care about me, so that I lived at my grandmother's or aunt's house since I could remember.

Because of the lack of parents all the year round, his academic performance was not good, and he was rebellious in the second year of junior high school, and he didn't want to go to school and went to the Internet.

My mother found out that the situation was serious, and if she didn't care about me anymore, this life would be ruined. She was thinking about my future while paying close attention to my studies, and she always had a desire for me to become a flight attendant in the future.

Later, my mother sent me to Beijing to study flight attendant. During the winter and summer vacations of the second year of school, my mother would accompany me to various airlines for interviews.

Because I have been drifting in Beijing for a long time, I want to find an airline close to home to fly, so I have been staring at China Eastern Airlines.

After several initial and re-examinations, in 2015, I was lucky enough to join the Jiangsu branch of China Eastern Airlines and became a flight attendant.

Flight attendant work photo).

It was my first job, and I didn't think it would be eight years.

The reason why I have been flying for so many years is because although this job is relatively boring, I do repetitive work like a robot every dayBut after being familiar with all the processes, you don't need to use your brain, it can be regarded as a comfort zone, and the longer you fly, the more difficult it is to jump out of this comfort zone.

Many people say that flight attendants are a profession that eats youth, in fact, as long as you do not take the initiative to resign, or have not made serious mistakes, you will not be fired, often experienced flight attendants are very popular with the company, and the company's various benefits are good, especially during the pregnancy of female flight attendants, maternity leave has more than 500 days.

The income of flight attendants is also good, in addition to five insurances and one housing fund, the monthly basic salary is more than 2,000, and the monthly peak flight is more than 90 hours, plus various rewards, the monthly salary can be about 12,000 yuan, and under normal circumstances, the monthly salary is also more than 9,000 yuan.

But it is also hard money, flying from morning to night, often getting up at four or five in the morning, sometimes flying until 12 o'clock at night to get home, sometimes two consecutive 24 hours in a row, 48 hours a week off.

Celebrate the Spring Festival on the plane with colleagues).

After flying for so many years, I have seen the first rays of sunshine in the morning countless times, I have seen the empty airport lawn in the early morning, I have seen the scenery of all sizes, and I have also experienced the customs and customs of various places, but the most I have seen is always through the small portholes, all kinds of sky, countless festivals have been spent on the plane, often delayed all night, and I am sick and flying.

Since there are very few people in the flight attendant circle, I have always been more Buddhist about love.

In February 2019, I was introduced by a friend and met my husband.

My husband is a year older than me, a native of Nanjing, and currently runs several snack bars.

The night we first met, there was no drama, and something terrible happened. When I arrived at the hotel because of the flight delay, it was already 11 o'clock at night. They were waiting for me while drinking and talking, and he was drunk that night.

At first glance, I saw the young man, who was not tall, immature-looking, looked like a high school student, different from what I imagined, I didn't feel anything about him, and I didn't want to continue.

After working as a flight attendant for a few years, my husband and I were very vigilant, and I called a taxi and asked him to take a taxi back by himself. The next day, he told me that the driver drove him around most of the city of Nanjing, and when he woke up, he found that the mobile phone was in the driver's hand, and it was still a terrible thing to think about.

He quipped, "Last night, if anything happened to me, I don't know how I died." "I was amused by him.

Later, every time I met and chatted with him, I was very happy, he spoke humorously, and when I told him something that was not too funny, he would laugh.

The days of flying every day are boring, and suddenly a very interesting person breaks into my life, and I have a good impression of him.

Later, when I encountered any difficulties, he was the first to actively help me find a way to deal with them, which made me feel very warm.

Two things that impressed me were that he once drove me to a flight, and when I got to the company for a meeting, I found that my suitcase and bags were left in the trunk of the car.

Me at work).

I was about to get on the plane after the meeting in 15 minutes, and he was already in the city of Nanjing, which was far away from the airport, and I was anxious like an ant on a hot pot.

Fortunately, the flight was delayed that day, and I quickly called him, and he drove back quickly to deliver the box to me, without a word of complaint.

Another time, I flew a flight at four o'clock in the morning, and on the way to the airport, the tire of the car burst, and I called ** to tell him that the car could not be driven away.

He said, "You put the car on the side of the road, hurry up and take a taxi to the flight, and I will bring someone to help you drive the car away." Later, he drove all the way to my mother-in-law, helped me change the tires of the car, and drove home one by one.

I thought that the flight was going to be 100% off for the first time that day, and I successfully completed the flight mission.

In life, I was always making trouble, he was laughing, he never broke his face and quarreled with me loudly, which also touched me, and gradually we came together.

My wedding photo with my husband).

We all wanted to get married early, but when it was time to talk about marriage, we caught up with the outbreak of the national epidemic and finally set the wedding in April 2022.

Unexpectedly, three months before the wedding, I became pregnant. I thought it would be a joy to be a mother, but I didn't expect that the pregnancy reaction almost cost me half my life.

I vomit when I open my eyes every day, lie in bed from morning to night, can't get up when I vomit, and have a hard time washing my face.

I cried and went to the doctor, the doctor said that I had hyperemesis gravidarum and needed to hang water in the hospital to replenish body fluids, but it did not stop the vomiting, I held the bag with water in my hand and threw up in the trash can.

Four months later, I finally stopped vomiting, and in order to make up for my stomach, I began to eat all kinds of binge, but I didn't expect my body to be seriously deformed, and I became a big fat man of 160 pounds, and I also had stretch marks on my stomach.

It is not easy to conceive a baby in October, and once you give birth, you will suffer.

In late September 2022, it was finally the day of giving birth to a baby. Those who don't know are fearless, I want to give birth quickly, and it will be over after giving birth.

I took the first photo with my baby).

Unexpectedly, in the process of giving birth to a baby, as long as I exert myself, the baby's fetal heart rate will fall down. The doctor said, "Observe for 10 minutes at the end, and if it doesn't work, I'll give you a caesarean section." ”

My mood was like a leaf being blown off, I felt infinitely disappointed, I didn't want to be in pain for two days and two nights, and finally I had to be dragged to have a caesarean section.

At the last moment, the midwife encouraged me, "If you don't try again, you can do it." "It may be the power of maternal love, I took a deep breath and held it, and used all the strength of the ** downward, and the baby was stimulated at once. The moment I saw the baby, I burst into tears and felt that everything was worth it.

I never thought that after the baby was born, the placenta could not fall off, and I could only peel the placenta by hand, which was even ten times more painful than giving birth, I thought, why am I so miserable?

When I finally returned to the ward, the doctor told me to get out of bed and urinate as soon as possible, and if there was urinary retention, a urinary catheter would be inserted. I don't think I can suffer any more sin.

So I quickly got out of bed and went to the toilet, but I didn't expect to faint in the toilet, my husband was so frightened at the time, he hurriedly hugged me, shouted at the nurse aunt, and finally, I was carried out of the toilet by them.

The baby can't see enough).

Although the experience of giving birth to a baby was very bad, looking at the newborn baby, I was immediately **, and I kept wanting to see him and take pictures.

I was finally discharged from the hospital and was confined at home, but my mother-in-law was very busy and had no time to take care of me and the baby during the confinement.

My mother-in-law is in the vegetable wholesale business, and she often gets up at three or four o'clock in the morning and goes to the hotel to deliver goods in the afternoon, which is very hard. At that time, my mother-in-law said, find an aunt, and she will pay for it.

In fact, when I first became a mother, I didn't understand anything, and I was often at a loss in the face of my baby, so I regarded the confinement lady as a lifesaver.

At the beginning, I found a confinement lady in the agency, but I made the common mistake of a flight attendant, treated her as a passenger, and was very polite to her.

On the day I first arrived, I said, "Auntie, you're finally here!" You're welcome, if you're tired, rest! "She took care of it.

After she settled the child, she lay down in bed and went to bed, cooking and messing around.

After staying for a week, the floor of the room was not mopped once. What I couldn't stand the most was that she didn't clean the bottle in time, and she couldn't wash it cleanly, and the pressure valve was full of residual milk stains.

The baby is one year old).

I think that as a consumer, a mother of a child, if the confinement lady has any bad things for the child, she needs to replace it in time.

After I reported this matter to the agency, I immediately changed to a confinement sister-in-law named Sister Yan.

Sister Yan is kind-hearted and very warm-hearted, and she is a light that illuminates my entire confinement period and even for a long time afterward, and I am very grateful to her.

At that time, I had just given birth, and I didn't have enough milk, so she changed her tricks every day to cook all kinds of delicious food and help me get milk. Whenever I was in a bad mood and broke down and cried, she would hug me, comfort me, and help me sort out my emotionsHer hug gave me strength when I was at my most helpless.

She also did a lot of things that did not belong to her duties, because I was confined at my mother-in-law's house, and when I was just 30 days old, I returned to my small home, and the house was a dirty mess.

It is very rare to meet a good confinement sister-in-law, in my heart, Sister Yan is my relative. On the day I went down, I was very reluctant and hugged her and cried.

My mom and baby).

But after her, my good fortune came to an abrupt end, and the aunt I met later was strange.

Although the third aunt has a bad personality, she worked quickly for two months, and then a strange thing happened.

In late December 2022, the national epidemic situation opened, and my three-month-old baby and I, as well as my husband, were all sick.

She was also impotent, so she blamed us and infected her. So, she took this excuse and began to expose her true nature, lying on the bed every day, constantly shouting "hey, hey", but when she was playing with her mobile phone and sleeping in the room, she never shouted, as long as she pushed open the door and found us outside, she began to feel uncomfortable, moaning loudly, and listening to it very penetrating.

At that time, in the general environment, everyone must be yang, and I think her idea is very strange. Although I was in a state of prostration, I still had to take care of my sick baby, but I still took care of her and cooked for her.

A few days later, we were all fine, and she was still lying in bed and unwilling to move. Seeing my aunt's look of "I was infected by you, you should serve me", I felt very uncomfortable.

Celebrate your birthday together).

I told my husband that this aunt had a problem with her nature, and my husband resolutely dismissed her.

Later, the aunt who changed was very strange, and she went to the police station.

She was in her forties, chubby, with short brown hair, small eyes, and heavy makeup, and the day I arrived, I noticed that something was wrong.

The first thing she did when she entered the door, she took the baby and said, "Oh, Xiaobao, Auntie won't be able to take you with makeup in the future." Later, when I ran the train with my mouth full, I would say that her son was engaged in car rental in Hainan, and there were a few luxury cars in the house, and I would say how many things the previous employer gave her, I felt that the style of painting was wrong, maybe this aunt just talked a little more, maybe she worked well.

But I found that she was lazy in a different way, often went downstairs to take out the garbage, chatted downstairs, and came home very sleek, giving people a sense of cunning and cunning.

She put her whole head on the baby's belly to tease him, I didn't dare to do that action, because the baby was too young for more than three months, and I was afraid that the baby would eat his hair.

It was a pleasure to be with the baby).

As a result, I was afraid of what to do, and the baby pulled out a piece of her hair the next day, and I endured it at the time, I think, people are also kind to tease the baby.

Half a month has passed, and she has been bragging all kinds of things, all kinds of laziness, and the time to go downstairs to play ** is getting longer and longer.

The most unacceptable thing for me is that the bottles can't be washed. I explained that after the bottle is washed, take hot water and sterilize it. After she washed the bottle that day, I noticed that the height of the hot water had not changed at all, and the pacifier was full of cheese and soaked in tap water. When I found out, she not only didn't admit her mistakes, but also quibbled.

Because it is clearly written in the contract, if you are not satisfied, you can change it at any time without reason.

I called ** at night to tell the agent about it, and asked the agent to dismiss my aunt tactfully. But she told the agent: "I was suddenly asked to leave, and I have to make amends." ”

The next morning, I woke up and found her sitting on the couch, with no intention of leaving, and had been texting my husband to make a sum of money to compensate her.

My eyes are full of babies).

I immediately got angry, and I quarreled with her while holding the baby, and I said, "You made a mistake, and I didn't care about you, and you still played Lai Pilai in my house and refused to leave?" ”

She also exclaimed, "I have to make amends." "Later, we tore our faces and cursed.

I pointed my finger at her and said, "Don't show up under my nose, you have to leave immediately, if you don't leave, I'll call the police!" She was stunned for a moment, obviously weak, and followed my words. "Then you report! Later, I called the police directly.

A few minutes later, Uncle Hat came, and was very surprised to see me holding the baby and daring to conflict with her, so he said to her, "You hurry up, what are you doing with other people?" She knew she had no reason, so she immediately left with her luggage.

Actually, now that I think about it at that time, I was quite strong, only I was at home with the baby, and I had such a fierce conflict with her, and I don't know where the courage came from, "I'm not afraid of anyone, I want to fight with you to the end and protect my child".Perhaps this is also a mother's desire to protect.

It's not easy for every mother).

Faced with one unreliable aunt after another, in desperation, I had no choice but to bring the baby by myself. But when I was on maternity leave, I was about to fly on a flight, and I was anxious about my career and family choices.

At the same time, the baby is more difficult to bring, he is a high-demand child, hanging on his body every moment during the day, often crying at night, sometimes waking up more than a dozen times at night, I can't count how many nights, I hold the baby silently crying.

Because of the severe lack of sleep every day, I was in a very bad state and was severely depressed. At this time, I caught up with my mother to have lipoma surgery, and the operation was quite sinful, and it was still painful for more than a month, and I felt as if I couldn't see the light of life.

But my mother knew that after I changed my aunt many times, she had not recovered yet, so she quit her job selling clothes and came to me to help me with the baby.

In fact, when my mother first came, I was not in a very good mood, when the baby woke up at night, I would still hold the baby and cry, my husband was very distressed, and proposed that we go out to play for a few days to relax.

Take your baby to play in Lijiang).

At that time, there were free air tickets for employees, so I decided to take my mother, husband and baby to Lijiang and Xishuangbanna for ten days.

Although it was very tiring to take the baby during the journey, I was very happy because it was the first time I took my mother out to play after so many years of flying. I remember that I used to take five days of annual leave, and every time I wanted to take my mother out to play, she was afraid of wasting money and always refused.

After I came back, I reflected a lot and figured out a lot of things. After spending my birthday with my mother, I feel that every day has become better and my mood has suddenly brightened.

Faced with the choice of career and family, I also found the answer, I don't want my children to lack maternal love like me, and I don't want to keep my mother at home alone and work hard to take care of the baby.

So, in July this year, I made a very important decision to leave my job and go home with my baby. It was a difficult decision to give up being a flight attendant, but for the sake of my family, I don't regret it.

After leaving my job, sitting in my husband's car, I held the resignation letter stamped with the official seal in my hand, and pretended to be light and breezy.

Happy family of three).

My husband said, "I'll play a song "The Intersection of Phoenix Blossoms" for you. "The song is only sung to the second song, I have burst into tears, my heart is full of mixed feelings, when the eight years of flight attendant, let me grow a lot, but also pay too much, I didn't expect the last piece of paper to end, but life is not a feast, people can have 100 ways to live, each stage has each stage of the state.

After going through so much, I am very content now, my mother-in-law has been giving financial support, my mother helped me take care of the baby together, I stopped for a while, and spent time with my children and mother, so as to make up for all the missing love.

When my baby goes to kindergarten, I will go back to work and do what I love.

Nowadays, while taking the baby, I will also record my daily life and share my civil aviation experience on **, which has received the attention and love of many netizens.

Of course, there will be different voices, and some netizens left messages: A good flight attendant has been made like this! I replied:A person's life can have various states, all of which are temporary, flight attendants are just a profession, and there is no shame in being a full-time housewife. Bao Ma is a very hard profession, and when I picked up this bowl, I knew that it was not much better than the flight attendant.

There are different stages in life, each stage has its meaning, and the important thing is to live in the moment.

Dictation: Goo

Editor: Buddha Heart].

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