Love is an eternal theme. No matter how old you are, you need love. So how can a woman love a man to the bone and make him addicted? It is nothing more than the following three points.
1.Independent.
Independence is a sign of a woman's self-confidence. Independent women drive men crazy. Some women, when they are in love, will become more and more dependent on a man, causing him to become more and more distant. You.
After Xiaoqing and Xiao Li fell in love, Xiaoqing asked Xiao Li to buy her all the things, including bags, clothes, and daily necessities. However, Xiaoqing was not satisfied with what Xiao Li bought, and Xiaoqing felt that Xiao Qing was not only dependent on him financially, but also emotionally.
At the beginning, Xiao Li was chasing Xiaoqing. After a while, Xiao Li distanced himself from her. Xiao Li ignored her. Later, Xiao Qing asked why. Xiao Li said that she was with him. We're tired of being together and don't want to go on.
An independent woman will not ask a man to buy her something, but when she needs something, she can buy it herself. Women want men to be infatuated with them, not dependent on them. You have to be independent. When he truly loves you, he will be willing to spend money for you, not you stubbornly asking for money. This property is completely different.
2. Give each other space.
Xiao Xiao and Xiao Liu are together because they love each other. After the two fell in love, Xiaoxiao asked Xiao Liu to report. Xiao Liu is a skating coach, although it is inconvenient for Xiao Liu to bring a mobile phone, Xiao Liu still hopes that Xiao Liu wears a watch.
When Xiaoxiao sends a message to Xiaoliu, he can reply immediately. Xiaoliu said that he was at work and could not reply in time, but Xiaoxiao insisted that Xiaoliu ask him to reply immediately, even though he had to report. "It doesn't matter what he did to her. My boyfriend said that he was at work at the time, and he would send him messages and call him from time to time when he was a child. As time passed, Xiao Liu felt that he had no free space. Everything, the two still broke up.
When you love someone, you need to give them space. Don't squeeze too hard. Sometimes, the tighter you hold it, the more sand leaks out of your hands.
3. Maintain self-growth.
When you are in love, don't forget to maintain self-development, which can not only increase your attractiveness, but also improve your abilities, increase your self-confidence and income.
After Fei Fei and Xiao Jie fell in love, Fei Fei didn't want to put too much pressure on herself, and pinned all her expectations on Xiao Jie. She found dependence and a sense of belonging in Xiaojie, feeling that she could rely on him forever. Jay, if there's anything he can do, she should keep it as it is.
Xiaojie asked Fei Fei to study with her, but Xiaojie was a person who loved to learn very much. Even outside of work, I haven't forgotten to develop myself. At the same time, I also asked Fei Fei to study with me. Fei Fei said: Even after work, he is tired enough. Try to relax after work and don't get too tired.
Xiaojie can only study his own. Xiaojie continued his studies and was appointed as the general manager, while Feifei remained an employee. The rift between the two is growing, and the disagreements are becoming more frequent. Similarly, they often quarrel because of differences of opinion, and the two break up after many arguments.
In love, women also need to keep themselves growing. While one is growing, the other is at rest. Such relationships are unbalanced, and romantic relationships do not last long.
If a woman does the above three things, the man will love you from the bottom of his heart and become more and more inseparable from you.