February**Dynamic Incentive Plan We often face various challenges in life, and Buddhism divides the suffering of life into seven types, namely birth, old age, sickness, death, resentment, love and separation, and unwantedness. Although we often comfort ourselves that our destiny is in our own hands, many times, we cannot change the destiny that has been decided at the moment of birth.
Under the knife of fate, we seem so small. However, even in the face of challenges, we should not give up, we must be brave enough to face the ups and downs of life, keep working hard, and pursue our dreams.
Let's use this as motivation to move forward bravely and create a better life.
This is a family that was born with suffering. The seven hardships in the world seem to have not spared the ...... of this ordinary familyThe eldest son in the family suffers from a rare disease that causes his hands and feet to shrink.
In an ordinary family in Yuexi County, Anhui Province, their son is named Wang Yifei, who has reached the age of marriage. After being introduced by the locals, he met a girl surnamed Wu in a neighboring county town.
The family backgrounds of the two are very similar, and they also think that each other is very good, and with the matchmaker's matchmaking, the two walked together smoothly. After a year of getting along and running-in, their hearts are closer and they have entered the palace of marriage together.
After getting married, their lives went smoothly and were no different from other young couples in the county. A year later, the wife became pregnant, and this happy event added new impetus to the ordinary family.
Upon learning that his wife was pregnant, relatives and friends sent their blessings and looked forward to the arrival of a new life. Conceived in October, once delivered, in 2004, they finally welcomed the baby.
Father Wang Yifei was very happy and named the child Wang Lintao according to the family genealogy. The child's appearance is very cute, with a pair of eyes like black grapes, and the whole person seems to be particularly aura.
His parents loved him very much, and even though the family was not wealthy, they gave their children the best things to eat and use.
The Wang family thought that their child's upbringing would be uneventful, but they gradually discovered that the child's situation was different from that of other children born at the same time. Other children can run on the ground on their own, but their children are unable to stand firmly.
Although the Wang parents did not have a higher education, they were keenly aware that things were not simple. So, they immediately took the child to the hospital. The doctor's diagnosis devastated the Wang family, who learned that two-year-old Wang Mingtao had been diagnosed with spinal muscular atrophy.
Spinal muscular atrophy is a genetic disease caused by mutations in the motor neuronal survival gene, which is mainly manifested by weakness and atrophy of the limbs in children and infants, and in severe cases, symptoms such as dyspnea.
The disease progresses rapidly, which may lead to limited mobility and affect scientific exploration, such as Hawking's impaired mobility and inability to get out of a wheelchair throughout his life. Despite the richness of Hawking's spiritual world, it cannot compensate for the pain caused by limited mobility.
In advanced cases, patients may not be able to breathe normally due to muscle weakness, and doctors can only sustain life by incision** to introduce air. At present, there are no drugs and surgeries for this disease in China, and doctors are helpless about this disease, telling family members that the patient's life may not exceed ten years.
A thin medical certificate sentenced the child to death. The parents were shocked and unable to accept it. They looked at their children with doubts and endless pain.
Children are a gift from heaven that they will cherish even if the gift is flawed. They decided to take more care of the child, even though fate had declared that he had only ten years to live.
Although they know that such days are short-lived, they still hope to be able to work miracles. They took the child home and took care of him three meals a day, more attentively than before.
They want to do their best to bring more joy to their children. They thought about it for a long time and decided to have another child. They know that this decision can be difficult, but they believe that if they do their best, they will succeed.
The wife became pregnant again, and they carefully protected the child. They knew that this child would be their all hope. After conceiving in October, a new life came into the family.
The newborn is a boy who they expect to be the breadwinner of the family. Although their hearts are full of worries, they are still full of hope.
The father, who originally named the child according to the family tradition, found a local feng shui master this time and named the child Wang Haoran, hoping that this name would bring good luck to the family.
However, after the birth of the child, the parents are still worried about whether he will also suffer from the incurable disease in the family. Fortunately, the child was able to walk and run like a normal child when he was more than a year old, and the big stone hanging in the hearts of his parents finally landed.
Although all the family's savings were used to treat their eldest son, the parents never gave up and were willing to give it a try even if the chances were slim. In order to treat their eldest son and make ends meet, they left their hometown to work in a big city to earn money.
Despite the difficult life, Wang Yifei and his wife have always been steadfast and hope to bring new hope to the family with their love and perseverance.
With full expectations, the couple embarked on a journey to Wenzhou. They knew that it would not be easy to go out with their eldest son, so they left him at their grandparents' house in the countryside.
However, their second son was still young and needed his mother's company, so they decided to take him with them. However, because the couple needed to go out to work during the day, they had to leave their youngest son at home alone.
In order to ensure the safety of the child, the wife wakes up early, feeds the child and puts him in a hanging basket. Although the second son is young, he is very sensible and understands the hardships of his parents, and does not cry like other children, but seems extraordinarily quiet.
Looking at this quiet son, Wang Yifei and his wife were full of sadness and distress, but life forced them to do so.
The days are passing day by day, and the child who used to live only in a hanging basket has grown up. He is the only hope for the family and must be educated. After much deliberation, the couple decided to send their youngest son back to the countryside.
When the child grows up, he can help his grandfather take care of his big brother and can also go to school. However, the reality is particularly cruel to the family. In November 2017, just before they were about to go home, their youngest son suddenly fainted.
Wang Yifei and his wife immediately sent him to the hospital**, hoping that it was just a sudden illness, and it would be enough to hang the bottle for two days**. However, the doctor's diagnosis once again pushed the family into the abyss.
The diagnosis was that my eight-year-old brother had medulloblastoma, which was getting worse, and needed immediate surgery. So, what is medulloblastoma? This is a common childhood malignancy that can form in the child's brain, affecting cerebellar function and leading to diseases such as high blood pressure.
Once identified, if no ** is performed, the patient's survival time is usually only about three months.
Faced with two sick children, the deep pain of the parents is indescribable. So, why did the couple keep giving birth to sick children? There are many possible reasons: 1Familial inheritance: When our genes are passed on to the next generation, they will not only pass on traits such as appearance, blood type, etc., but also carry some disease genes.
For example, if a father has heart disease, his children are at increased risk of heart disease. Therefore, some children's diseases may be due to family inheritance.
However, Wang's parents are in good health and have not suffered from diseases such as spinal muscular atrophy or medulloblastoma. Therefore, the possibility of two children suffering from this disease is very low in the family.
2.Maternal disease: A disease contracted by the mother during pregnancy can have an impact on the fetus in the womb. Therefore, many families now pay attention to the protection of pregnant women, and items such as radiation protective clothing for pregnant women have also been born.
Although Wang Lintao's mother may not have paid enough attention to her own maintenance when she was pregnant with her first child, she paid attention to protecting herself throughout her pregnancy when she was pregnant with her younger brother. So my brother's medulloblastoma may have another cause.
3.Paternal factors: Pregnancy is not only a matter for the mother alone, but also for the father who provides the sperm of the other half of the fertilized egg. Under the eugenics policy, most people know the benefits of preparing for pregnancy in advance.
In order to have a healthy and intelligent child, many families start preparing for pregnancy at least half a year in advance. Among them, many fathers exercise every day to ensure the viability of egg cells.
If you have some bad habits, such as alcohol and smoking, you also need to quit these bad habits when trying to conceive so that you can ensure that your baby is healthy and smart.
Wang's father had a habit of drinking and smoking, while his mother was not well-educated and did not understand the dangers of smoking to her children. They don't have the idea of getting pregnant, and the father's bad habits can be the cause of the child's illness.
Many children with cleft lips are caused by their parents' smoking and drinking. Therefore, we should learn from this and make the necessary sacrifices for better genetic inheritance.
The mood of pregnant women is also often overlooked, and in fact, it has a significant impact on the health of the fetus. Children whose parents love each other usually look better because the father's love makes the mother feel happy, which affects the health of the fetus.
However, when the mother was pregnant with her younger brother, she was very worried about any problems that could lead to an unhealthy baby. The mother's emotions affect the fetus through hormones and therefore the physical condition of the younger brother.
Although there is no point in holding anyone to blame now, what Wang Yifei and his wife can do now is to try their best to make amends and restore their son's health. However, they encountered many difficulties.
The youngest son's condition was already serious and he needed surgery, but it cost 50,000 yuan, which was a huge amount of money for them. They can only borrow money from their hometown, although their grandfather is old, but still wants to do something for his grandson, he found a job cleaning toilets in the county, earning a meager salary every month, and buying some nutritional products for his grandson.
But suddenly received a ** from his son and told him that his little grandson was also seriously ill. This grandfather, who has not had anything bad since he was a child, is now suffering like this, he couldn't stand it all of a sudden, fell to the ground, and fell out of the fracture.
The old man's body function is not as good as before, and this fall is a huge blow to him.
The life of the Wang family was already very difficult, and at this juncture, the old man fell and failed to return home in time, and the fire at home became more and more intense. The fire destroyed their only dwelling, leaving them destitute and left only with a broken frame.
Although the eldest son was not injured, the loss of property has put the family in a difficult situation. For the child's surgery, the grandfather asked for help everywhere and finally scraped together the operation fee of 50,000 yuan.
After the operation, they had no money to spare, so they had to set up a simple tent to spend the long night. Although the surgery went well, the road ahead was still difficult. They needed money to treat their sons, and Wang Yifei was so bent on earning money that he even forgot that his own health was not good.
During a high-load job, he fractured his toe and could not walk properly. Although the fracture was not serious, the family's breadwinner collapsed, and their lives were even worse.
Suffering ensued, overwhelming the family. Although the eldest son could not walk, his mind was clear. He offered to his parents to stop his medication**.
Although he has exceeded the ten-year deadline set by doctors, will he really survive the next decade? Miracles are rare, and the family's plight is so heavy.
The eldest son advised his parents to use the money from the drugs he had bought for him to his younger brother. The chances of him ** are slim to none, and if his younger brother can**, there will be someone who will be able to take care of them in the future.
The eldest son's last words made Wang Yifei and his wife cry to tears. They don't want to stop their eldest son's **, but that's life, and they can't get out of it even if they try their best.
The eldest son's ** has been stopped for two years, and the younger son's condition requires chemotherapy, and the cost of each operation is daunting. However, there are various charity organizations in the society, and they have initiated donations on their own.
Hundreds of thousands of donations were sent to Wang Lintao's father, and these donations became the hope of the child. With the development of science and technology, the eldest son's spinal muscular atrophy has appeared with a special drug, which may lead to his disease.
However, this special drug is expensive, and one injection requires hundreds of thousands. The family could not afford such an expense. Every time he thinks of this, Wang Yifei will cry.
Even if life abuses me thousands of times, tomorrow I will still continue to move forward with the rising sun. After Wang Yifei recovered from a foot injury, he found a manual job to support his family. The old house was also restored with the help of others, and although it was not luxurious, it also had a place to shelter from the wind and rain.
Wang Lintao's grandfather also wanted to contribute to the family, and he started raising silkworms in his new house, hoping to alleviate the family's difficulties through the income brought by silk. Yu Hua said in his work "Alive": "You must not be confused, the dead want to come back to life, you are a big living person, you can't die." ”
Life is difficult, but always be optimistic. Therefore, even if it is only for the most basic survival, always have hope. I wish Wang Yifei's family a gradual improvement in their lives, and finally be able to overcome the difficulties in front of them and usher in the dawn of happiness.