When I returned to my hometown during the Spring Festival, I found that in the countryside, even if you earn 1 million a year, you have to rank behind the "small soldiers" or temporary workers in the system. Even if their salary is more than 4,000 yuan, they get less than 100,000 yuan a year.
As long as there is a job within the system at the dinner table, not to mention the official establishment of "officials", a temporary worker is also highly respected in his hometown, and you have to be ranked below him.
After graduating from junior college, I have been working hard outside, and I have neither chosen to return to my hometown for development, nor have I chosen to enter the system. I worked in the company for six years, and after accumulating some experience and funds, I went out and went it alone.
After several years of hard work, I think I have developed well. My small company is already on the right track, with 15 people under my hands and an annual turnover of tens of millions, and I can get more than 1 million, and maybe more.
In just a few years, I bought a house and a new car in a first-tier city. I thought I could "take" it in my hometown.
However, the reality was that I couldn't have any relationship with my relatives in my hometown. This phenomenon is especially evident at the dinner table of the party.
At the party, there were 3 tables in total, and I was not placed in an important position. The elders of the family are with a few relatives in the system, and I am with some part-time workers.
When they bring wine, they also bring it first. You must know that the larger "official position" among them is an administrative deputy section and a career department, and the others are section members, with administrative establishment and career establishment.
In our hometown, the salary of the main department is only a little more than 6,000, and the deputy department is more than 5,000 yuan. If it is not in a position of real power, even if it is a leader of the department, there is no benefit, just a few hundred yuan more fixed salary.
The salary of the clerk is 3,000 to 4,000 yuan, which is not enough for me to "plug my teeth".
In particular, a temporary worker relative of the city's comprehensive law enforcement bureau toasted at the table and slapped the ground very loudly, saying that in the county seat, whoever has something to do just look for him, and there is nothing he "can't do with it", just like the county magistrate.
The elders in their hometown regard them as capable people, and they themselves regard themselves as capable people. Pretend to be high at the dinner table. It was as if everyone had to slap them, and to be honest, I felt uncomfortable.
You can be as bullish as you want, and I don't need you.
In the eyes of relatives in his hometown, only those who work within the system are respected.
Outside the system, no matter how high the income, they will be regarded as part-time workers, and no one cares about them at all. In such an environment, I felt helpless.
I figured it out!
First, China's "official-oriented" thinking is at workAs long as they are in the system, they are "officials", respected, and superior.
Second, it is a matter of interest. You earn 100,000 or 1 million, and in the eyes of your relatives, you won't give him a point. It's different within the system, and maybe it can be used. Temporary workers also have a certain amount of power, and relatives can also "borrow light".
In my hometown county, people who have a little ability, both horizontally and vertically, have local interpersonal relationships, children go to school, are sick and hospitalized, and acquaintances can be done quickly, so they are treated by relatives and friends.
The third is human nature. People allow a person who has nothing to do with them to flourish, but they can't see that the people close to them are a little better than themselves. Unless you are too much stronger than him, you can only make him look up.
To tell the truth, it is impossible to develop within the system of your hometown, life is better than a stable one, there is no trouble of unemployment and involution, and you want to be rich and expensive with an ordinary working life.
Although it is hard to work hard in a big city, the educational resources in a big city are very good, and the starting point of my child after birth is definitely much better than that of the county.
Because in the eyes of local relatives, neighbors and villagers, no matter how much money you make, the "iron rice bowl" is worthy of respect, and relatives and friends will look up to you.
As for outside the system, no matter how much money you make, in which big city you live, and how good a car you have, in the eyes of your family, you are just a part-time worker, and no one respects you at all.
So, what's wrong with society? Am I wrong, or are my relatives wrong?
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