If you want to become a master of listening, you must first learn to be an "emotional detective" and find out the emotional clues of the other party one by one. Don't underestimate these clues, they are hidden treasures behind words, and by mastering them, you can easily decode the inner world of the other person.
Next, you'll have to learn to use the amazing skill of "reflexive listening". It's not as simple as looking in the mirror and reflecting the light, but repeating what the other person said in your own words to make sure you fully understand what they mean. In this way, the other party will feel that you are really a "telepath", and instantly shorten the distance between you.
Of course, don't forget to show your "emotional empathy" superpower while listening. When the other person is struggling, you can say, "I can understand your feelings, and if I were you, I would think the same way." In this way, the other party will feel that you are not only a good listener, but also a caring person who knows how to empathize.
Finally, don't forget to be "open" and "boundary" in your listening. While you want to fully support the other person, you also need to avoid interfering too much in their lives. You can say, "I'll always be there for you, but the final decision is up to you." "This way, you show that you care and keep each other separate.
In short, if you want to be a humorous and listener, you need to keep learning and practicing these skills. I believe that as long as you work hard, one day you will become the "spiritual teacher" who makes everyone willing to talk about their hearts! Emotion