In China, there are more than 200 million single people, of whom single men and women of marriageable age account for the majority. Faced with such a reality, many people want to find their other half and form a happy family. However, in this fast-paced society, various pressures such as work, study, and life make many people not have enough time and opportunities to meet the right person of the opposite sex. As a result, blind dates have become a popular way to help single people find love.
With the development of the Internet, online dating platforms have also emerged, providing more choices and convenience for single people. According to statistics, there are currently more than 200 blind date platforms in China, with a total of more than 1 billion registered users and an annual transaction volume of tens of billions of yuan. These dating platforms attract different user groups through different models and functions, and also reflect different user needs and psychology.
So, what are the differences in the ratio and behavior of male and female users on these dating platforms? Who is more anxious to find a partner? The data of the dating platform can give us some answers.
According to a "Research Report on China's Internet Dating Market in the First Half of 2021" released on Zhihu, we can see that more than 90% of the three well-known blind date platforms - Jiayuan, Baihe and Zhenai - all come from female users, and offline activities are significantly more female than male. This shows that female users are more willing to pay for blind date services than male users, and they are more actively involved in offline dating activities. This reflects the eagerness and initiative of female users to find a partner.
Why are female users more anxious to find a partner than male users? In my opinion, there are several main reasons for this:
First, social pressure. In China, the traditional belief is that women should marry and have children at the right age, otherwise they are seen as "leftover women" or "old girls". This concept comes not only from the family, but also from society. Many women will suffer from marriage urging and questioning from colleagues, friends, relatives, etc. in work and life. These pressures can make women anxious and uneasy, and they can also affect their self-confidence and self-esteem. Therefore, many women will want to find a partner as soon as possible and end their single state in order to gain social recognition and respect.
Second, physiological factors. Women have more pronounced menstrual cycles and childbearing periods than men. As women age, their fertility gradually decreases and their risk of having a baby increases. And in China, most people still want to have their own children, which they consider to be a sign of integrity and happiness in marriage and family. Therefore, many women will want to find a suitable partner before a certain age, get married and have children, complete their fertility tasks, and also meet their maternal needs.
Third, psychological factors. Women are more emotionally and communicatively focused than men, and need more companionship and support. In this highly competitive society, many women will encounter various difficulties and challenges in their work, as well as various pressures and contradictions. At these times, they will want someone to confide in and rely on, to comfort and encourage, and to make them feel warm and happy. Single women, on the other hand, often feel lonely and lonely, lacking emotional satisfaction and opportunities for communication. Therefore, many women will want to find a partner as soon as possible and enjoy the sweetness of love and the happiness of marriage.
To sum up, we can see that the performance of female users on the dating platform reflects their urgency and initiative to find a partner, as well as the social pressure, physiological factors and psychological factors they face. These factors make them more eager to find a match than male users, and more willing to spend time and money on it.
So, as a married person, I would like to say a few words to these female users:
First of all, I understand your feelings and needs, and I also hope that you can find your other half as soon as possible and have a good marriage and family. However, I also hope that you will not blindly go on a blind date and pay because of the pressure of society and your own anxiety, and do not compromise and choose at will because of the worries of age and childbirth. You should have your own standards and bottom line, don't give up your ideals and pursuits easily, and don't ignore your feelings and needs. You should believe in your own worth and charisma, and don't let other people's eyes and evaluations affect your self-confidence and self-esteem. You should maintain your independence and individuality, and don't change your style and habits in order to cater to others. You should cherish your time and money, and don't waste your resources and opportunities for people and things that are not worthy. You should search and choose with your heart, and don't be hasty and impulsive in a hurry. You should use wisdom to judge and discern, and do not be gullible and deceived in order to believe in the good. You should communicate and communicate with love, and do not deceive and hurt in order to achieve your goals.
Secondly, I suggest that you have certain strategies and skills when using a dating platform to improve your success rate and efficiency. For example, you can choose a blind date platform that suits you according to your own conditions and requirements, such as Jiayuan, Baihe.com or Zhenai.com, which have their own characteristics and advantages, as well as different user groups and service content. You can choose the right type of membership according to your financial ability and time schedule, such as regular membership, premium membership or private customized membership, all of which have different fees and good ones.
Scope of services, you can choose the right service content according to your needs and preferences, such as online chat, offline activities, professional consultation, etc., all of which have different effects and experiences. You can choose the right display method according to your personality and style, such as text, voice, etc., which have different advantages and disadvantages. You can choose the right communication style according to your goals and expectations, such as active, passive, direct, indirect, etc., all of which have different strategies and techniques. In short, you should flexibly adjust and use the various functions and resources of the dating platform according to your own situation and environment to improve the effect and efficiency of your matchmaking.
Finally, I hope that in the process of finding a partner, you will not forget your life and happiness, do not give up your interests and dreams, and do not lose your friends and family. You should maintain your balance and health, don't let the blind date become your burden and pressure, and don't let the blind date occupy your whole and energy. You should enjoy your singleness and freedom, don't let the blind date limit your choices and possibilities, and don't let the blind date affect your mood and attitude. You should broaden your horizons and experiences, don't let blind dates constrain your thinking and behavior, and don't let blind dates determine your own values and destiny. You should believe in your own abilities and opportunities, don't let the blind date defeat your confidence and courage, and don't let the blind date change your essence and character.
Blind date is just a means, not an end, and not an end. Blind dates can only help you find a partner, but they can't guarantee your happiness. Blind dates can only give you a chance, not determine your future. Blind dates can only let you know others, not yourself. A blind date can only allow you to get along for a while, not for a lifetime. A blind date can only get you married, not you get married.
So, I hope that when you go on a blind date, don't forget yourself, don't lose yourself, and don't sacrifice yourself. I hope that when you go on a blind date, you can find a real partner for yourself, you can find happiness that truly belongs to you, and you can find love in the true sense.
I found that there are several characteristics of men's payment on the dating platform:
Compared with female users, male users are more inclined to use free or low-cost dating platforms, such as Tantan, Momo, WeChat, etc., and the paid functions of these platforms are mainly to improve the degree of **, unlock more matching conditions or add more ways to communicate, but it is not necessary. Male users tend to pay more attention to their own initiative and choice, and are less willing to pay for the services of the dating platform.
Male users often face more competition and challenges on paid dating platforms, such as Jiayuan, Baihe.com, Zhenai.com, etc., the paid functions of these platforms are mainly to get more appointment opportunities, enjoy more professional consultation and guidance, or obtain more authentic and high-quality object information, but it also takes more time and money. Male users tend to be more socially and economically pressured and less likely to stand out on dating platforms.
Male users are also prone to encounter some consumer traps and routines on the paid blind date platform, such as heart encounters, accompany me, etc., the paid functions of these platforms are mainly to chat with virtual or hired female users, ** rewards, etc., but they can't really achieve the purpose of blind dates, just to attract the attention and wallets of male users. Male users tend to be more susceptible to ** and deception, and are less able to distinguish between the real and the fake, and the pros and cons.
To sum up, we can see that the payment of men on the dating platform reflects their attitude and difficulty in finding a partner, as well as the market environment and risk factors they face. These factors make them more economical and cautious than female users to use the dating platform, and they also need more effort and wisdom to improve the effectiveness and efficiency of the blind date.
That's my opinion and analysis on this topic, thank you for reading and following. If you have any comments or questions, you are welcome to leave a message below, and I will reply to you as soon as possible.
That's my opinion and analysis on this topic, thank you for reading and following. If you have any comments or questions, you are welcome to leave a message below, and I will reply to you as soon as possible.