If you feel like you're a straight guy who can't chat, here are some things you can try to improve your chatting skills:
1.*Listening**: Good chat skills start with listening. Give the other person their full attention, listen carefully to what they have to say, and don't rush to interrupt or steal the conversation.
2.*Question**: Show your interest in the other person by asking questions, learning about their perspectives, experiences, and interests. This helps to have meaningful conversations.
3.*Share Yourself**: Share your experiences, thoughts, and feelings appropriately, but don't be too self-centered. Find a balance and make the conversation an exchange between the two sides.
4.*Topics to follow**: Learn about some common topics, such as current affairs, entertainment, sports, technology, etc., so that it is easier to participate in the discussion while chatting.
5.*Learn humor**: Proper humor can make chatting more relaxed and fun, but be careful not to overdo it or offend the other person.
6.*Practice Expression**: Improve your expression skills, try to express yourself as clearly as possible, and avoid vague or ambiguous expressions.
7.*Respect other people's opinions**: Don't insist too much on your own opinions, respect the views and opinions of others, and keep an open mind.
8.*Observe body language**: Pay attention to the other person's body language and expressions, which can help you better understand their emotions and attitudes.
9.*Accept yourself**: Don't be overly anxious about your straight masculine traits, everyone has their own style, just accept yourself and work hard to improve.
10.*Read & Learn*** Read some books or articles on communication skills and relationships to get some practical advice and tips.
Most importantly, be sincere and kind, and don't be afraid to communicate with people. Through continuous practice and learning, your chatting skills will gradually improve. At the same time, also remember that everyone has their own personality and style, don't try to change yourself completely, but find a way to build good communication and relationships with others.