Many boys either blindly pursue girls; or I don't know how to show favor to the girl I like; Some adopt a detached attitude to get the other person's attention.
If you want to pursue a girl you like, first of all, you have to consider what type of person the girl you like is. Let's share some basic dry goods for chasing girls first!
First, respect each other's feelings!
Some men overexpress their feelings in the face of the girl they like and ignore the feelings of the other person. Some boys with strong self-esteem will only consider their own feelings, which can easily lead to girls' rejection and avoidance psychological mechanisms.
The male brain mechanism is basically linear thinking, and the communication style is more focused on communicating in a problem-solving way.
Case 1: The collision of straight line thinking and curve thinking!
Boy A dictated the reason for the separation from the woman, and felt that the other party was an unreasonable person. After analysis, it was found that the woman wanted to get more emotional attention from the boy. And the man doesn't want to listen to so many emotional expressions from the other party, and just wants to solve the problems between them.
This is the collision of straight thinking and curve thinking!
Demon Moon's love advice to the man:
Find out what the real intentions behind the other person's emotions are!
Blind pursuit is equal to ineffective socialization;
Blind expression equals ineffective communication!
Learn about her hobbies, habits, values, and goals. By communicating with her, you can get to know her better, and you will have a better relationship to move forward.
Also don't try to cover up your shortcomings or mistakes. You can also share your own interests! Honesty and transparency are important cornerstones of a healthy relationship.
Second, sincerity is nirvana!
Don't ignore the other person's feelings in the early stages of a relationship.
If you want to leave and want to capture, you must grasp a degree.
Some boys try to get the attention of the other party in the early stage of the relationship. As a result, things must be reversed, not only has no effect, but pushes the other party farther and farther!
Case 2:
In the process of pursuing the goddess, boy B plays a role in the early stage of the relationship. With normal thinking, if you are about to leave, you can indeed attract the attention of the goddess!
but！The goddess you like is a woman with more life experience, so if you leave it is useless!
Demon Moon's love advice to the man:
Sincerity is nirvana! Be honest and confident!
Elevate your masculine charm at any time!
Don't try to change yourself to suit her preferences!
Maintain your uniqueness and self-worth!
Third: Focus on the sense of ritual and the ability to cultivate love!
Some boys have become numb to the dedication of girls after experiencing a lot of emotional trauma! So in the face of the person you like, you are afraid of it! As a result, two people who could have been together easily had an "emotional miscarriage"!
This is the spiritual self-emotional destruction!
That's what you don't have the ability to discover the good!
This is the manifestation of your inability to love!
Blaming emotional frustration on past unladylike encounters can only be part of the reason, and you don't find that a good attitude is a lack of ability to love! and lack of self-awareness!
Case 3:
The reason why boy C didn't catch up with the girl was that he didn't send care and blessings to the goddess on Valentine's Day!
Come on! No wonder you can't get the girl you like, and you can't even grasp the opportunity given by fate! No matter what the result is, at least the sincerity that should be given! The result is just a matter of course!
Demon Moon's love advice to the man:
It takes time and effort to pursue a woman.
Show your care and love consistently.
Focus on continuous focus on your own growth and development.
Demon Moon May everyone get better and better, and the years will be quiet.
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Author: Demon Moon has been in the industry for 9-10 years.
A senior spiritual tarot teacher, emotional counselor, psychological counselor for 10 years; Fantasy ** writer who is good at three Chinese; Focus on sharing emotional issues such as marriage and love, compound psychology, etc.! A love mentor at your fingertips.