In Chinese folk tradition, the New Year is a very important time period. At this time, people return to their parents' homes to visit relatives and pay New Year's greetings.
However, when returning to your parents' home, there are some items that you cannot bring with you, so as not to cause unnecessary trouble and wrongdoing. So, what are the three things you can't bring?
First of all, what you can't bring back to your parents' house are your husband's shoes. In traditional customs, shoes are considered unlucky items because they are homonymous with the word "evil". If you bring your husband's shoes back to her parents' home, it may bring bad luck and bad luck to your family. Therefore, when returning to her parents' home, women should avoid bringing back their husband's shoes.
Secondly, it is the husband's ** who cannot be brought back to his parents' house. In traditional customs, ** is considered as part of an individual's privacy. If the husband's ** is brought back to his parents' home, it may cause the family's dissatisfaction and suspicion of the son-in-law, which will lead to family conflicts. Therefore, when returning to her parents' home, women should avoid bringing back their husband's **.
In the end, it was the husband's clothes that could not be brought back to the parents' house. In traditional customs, clothing is considered a personal item and may cause resentment among family members against their son-in-law if brought back to their parents' home. In addition, clothing may also carry some unclean things, such as germs and dust, which can also have a negative impact on the health of your family.
Therefore, when returning to her parents' home, women should avoid bringing back their husband's clothes.
In short, when returning to their parents' home in the first lunar month, women should pay attention to the above three items that cannot be brought to avoid unnecessary trouble and right and wrong.
At the same time, when returning to their parents' homes, women should also pay attention to their words and deeds, respect their elders, get along in harmony, and spend a happy and peaceful Spring Festival together.