Uncle Wang of our village should be the most open-minded and enjoyable person in our whole village, Uncle Wang is over 60 years old this year, and has given birth to three daughters, who has always wanted a son, but later as the family planning policy on our side becomes more and more strict, he has to give up and accept his fate.
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Uncle Wang's father-in-law is a bachelor, unmarried, and when he was in his thirties, he picked up a baby girl and raised her himself. When Uncle Wang got married, his father-in-law also came to live with his daughter at Uncle Wang's house.
Although Uncle Wang's father-in-law has never been married, he is very good at making money, and he has been carrying a burden of exchanging sugar all his life and doing some small business. When Uncle Wang's father-in-law first came to our village to care for the elderly, it is said that he brought a lot of money over, in short, Uncle Wang married his wife, he didn't spend much money, and he made a lot of net money.
Uncle Wang is a very enjoyable person, in the early eighties, although we in northern Jiangsu solved the most basic food and clothing problems, but few families had money in their hands. The grain that the croppers have worked hard to grow all year round, in addition to paying enough to the state, what is left is only enough for the whole family to eat, once something happens to the family, there is no money to spend, so they can only sell pigs and sell grain.
Therefore, most of the people in our village, as soon as the busy farming season is over, they will go to Jiangnan or Nanjing or Shanghai in groups to work as coolies or do some small business to subsidize their families, and then rush back to harvest crops when the farming season is busy, and usually only the elderly, women and children are left at home.
Uncle Wang's father-in-law still carries the burden of changing sugar every day to go out early and return late, and Uncle Wang is young, except for the few acres of land at home, there is nothing to do. When others advised him to go out to work together, he was always reluctant to go. When the farm is slack, Uncle Wang cleans himself up every day, refreshing and clean, and people who don't know the details still think that he is not farming, what formal work does he have in the township!
Uncle Wang doesn't go out to make money himself, and often asks his wife to carry a vegetable basket and go to the market to buy some meat, fish, tofu or something to eat. Most of the villagers in our village eat the vegetables grown in their own vegetable fields at home, and they usually eat what they have, even if there are no vegetables in the vegetable field, stewing some pickles will solve the problem of three meals a day. Unless there are guests at home, or when there is a festival to worship ancestors, they will buy a pound of pork, plus some tofu and shutters or something.
My mother is even more excessive, she can't buy meat a few times a year, even the eggs laid by the hens, she is reluctant to give us to eat, take them to the market and sell them for some salt, monosodium glutamate, laundry detergent or something, our family eats the most all year round is to cook rice and stew pickles, and the living conditions are not comparable with Uncle Wang's family.
Because Uncle Wang has three children in his family, he never goes out to earn a penny, so he lives on the little money earned by his father-in-law in exchange for sugar burdens, and Uncle Wang is still very particular about eating, so every time the crops are not collected in the next season, Uncle Wang's food has been eaten.
Uncle Wang was not worried about the lack of food at all, he would take the snakeskin bag to the families in the village who had surplus grain to borrow grain, and promised them to borrow a bucket, and when his own grain was harvested, he would give a bucket and a half to others. Therefore, as long as Uncle Wang goes out to borrow grain, there is nothing that he can't borrow, of course, he is a man who keeps his promises, and when his family's crops are harvested, he will be busy paying back the grain owed to others first. Therefore, not long after the new grain was recovered, one-third of Uncle Wang's family's rations were used to pay off the debt.
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Uncle Wang doesn't care about this, he still should eat, sleep, and don't worry about life at all. Every summer and winter, when the village distributes relief food, Uncle Wang's family will always be the priority of the village cadres, although there have been people behind the indignation, saying that Uncle Wang's family is lazy and deserves to be poor, but the difficulties of Uncle Wang's family are indeed obvious.
When Uncle Wang's eldest daughter was seventeen years old, he recruited a son-in-law for his daughter, and the man's family was from the village next door to us, and the man was seven years older than Uncle Wang's daughter. When Uncle Wang's daughter got married, many people in our village scolded him behind his back for not being human, he didn't want to suffer at a young age, and his daughter got married at such a young age.
But no matter what others say, Uncle Wang doesn't care at all, except for a few days of hard work in the farm all year round, most of the rest of the time, he will clean himself up, play here every day, shop there, occasionally play some small cards, and live like a fairy.
Not long after Uncle Wang's eldest daughter got married, she gave birth to a son, such a large family, four generations in the same house, has been living in the earthen house many years ago, not to mention Uncle Wang himself, even people who don't know pass by their door, and they can't help but sigh.
Uncle Wang finally couldn't stand it anymore, and one year in the spring, he went to work on a construction site in the south with his son-in-law, who was a bricklayer, and Uncle Wang was doing small work for others. As a result, Uncle Wang didn't finish for two months, so he ran back alone, on the grounds that he was not in good health and couldn't bear it, but in fact he didn't want to endure hardship.
After another two years, Uncle Wang's second daughter had just passed the age of eighteen, and he was busy finding his daughter's in-law's house, the man's house was dozens of miles away from our village, and the second son-in-law was even older than the eldest son-in-law, and the second son-in-law was not good-looking at all, I really don't know what Uncle Wang thought.
It wasn't until later, not long after Uncle Wang's second daughter got married, that their family demolished the old house and built a two-story building on the original homestead.
After another two years, Uncle Wang's eldest son-in-law saw that no one in Uncle Wang's family was self-motivated, so he was like a model, and slowly deflated. After the farm is over, others go out early, but he is always unhurried, and the latest one goes out. Our people who work outside there will generally come back from outside one after another after the fifteenth day of the lunar month, and Uncle Wang's eldest son-in-law will come back early as soon as he enters the lunar gate. For this reason, Uncle Wang quarreled with his son-in-law a lot, but he didn't do as well as his son-in-law, how could his son-in-law obey him?
Later, Uncle Wang's third daughter also got married, and I don't know what the man's family is like, but I only know the bride price that should be asked, and Uncle Wang is not less than a penny.
A few years after Uncle Wang's second daughter got married, she divorced her husband and returned to her parents' home. The divorce was filed by the man, the reason is that Uncle Wang's daughter has not been pregnant for several years after marriage, as if there is something wrong with her body, plus she herself is too lazy and doesn't want to do any housework, so she knows that she dresses up and dresses up at home every day, and the man can't bear it, so he divorces her.
Uncle Wang's second daughter lived in her mother's house for a few months, and then she married again, this time she married from the county next door to us, the man was divorced, had a son and a daughter, and didn't mind if Uncle Wang's daughter could have children, and the man's family opened a bathing center, which is said to be very rich. Uncle Wang's daughter will be a mother when she marries, but it is also worry-free, the key is that this son-in-law is very generous, in order to successfully marry Uncle Wang's daughter, it is said that he also spent a lot of money, which is not less than the first marriage and daughter-in-law.
Later, Uncle Wang's father-in-law died because of his age, and his grandson went to school when he was older, so the family population was not so large. But Uncle Wang's food standard has never dropped, and his wife still rides an electric tricycle to the market town twice a day.
Last year, Uncle Wang's grandson was not admitted to the second book, but only admitted to a junior college, and his son-in-law directly told the child not to study and went to work on the construction site with him. Originally, the child wanted to repeat the study, but his father said, "What's the use of reading?" College students are not the same and can't find a job."
When I went back to my hometown during the Spring Festival this year, I saw Uncle Wang's grandson, a young man who was less than twenty years old, who didn't look like a person his age at all, wearing a pair of glasses, and didn't say a word when he saw anyone. However, according to the villagers, this child is very able to endure hardships, and on the construction site, he does whatever others tell him to do, and never shouts tired, which is not at all like his father and grandfather.
Our production team is very small, there are only a dozen families in total, except for Uncle Wang's family, the rest of the families are either in the south of the Yangtze River, or they have bought houses in our city.
Now Uncle Wang doesn't go out to work, and even rents his own land to a neighbor to plant, according to himself, he is not in good health, and many places are not normal. But I see that he usually dresses like a relative every day, holding a thermos cup and wandering around, he really doesn't look like he is in bad health, what is the situation in this? Probably only Uncle Wang himself knows best.
On the Internet, it has nothing to do with the content, if there is any infringement, the contact must be deleted) Like Uncle Wang, people who are unwilling to endure hardships all their lives, would rather be poor, and are not willing to go out to work, no matter in **, should belong to individual phenomena. Most rural people are still willing to endure hardship, and what they are most afraid of is that they will not be able to get money after suffering hardship.
Uncle Wang has eaten, drank, and played all his life, which is actually quite good, at least he is worthy of himself, and he has not come to the world once in vain. Everyone has their own way of life, as long as they don't steal or rob, it's reasonable and legal, how people want to live, that's their own business, isn't it?