Why is the concept of family becoming less and less human? To outsiders, it's all because of the changes in this world. In the past, the agrarian society has long been fragmented under the economic development of the information age and the industrial age, and people have gradually lost the motivation to cooperate with each other. In this huge change in the social landscape, emotions don't seem to be very important. Not to mention the elderly, even if they are born in the 80s, they will have deep feelings. Even if it is a holiday, it is very difficult to get relatives together. The atmosphere of the New Year is becoming more and more dull and less every year, and the excitement and excitement of youth are gradually fading, and the only opportunity to meet is the funeral of an elder in the family.
This is a growing trend in both towns and villages. Many people believe that this is due to a change in people's minds, due to being eroded by the best things, and people believe that everything should go forward. Outwardly, this is a big problem, but if you think about it, we know that with the development of the times, people have become less and less in need of each other. With the development of technology, everyone can live without relying on others. Therefore, in the age of farming, people's lifestyles are no longer very important.
At that time, economic development was not as developed as it is today, and people in my hometown did not go out very much, which was because people's material level was not high at that time, and their ability to bear risks was not strong, and in order to survive, most of the time they relied on their own strength. When people in the village get married, get married, build a new house, and when they are in trouble, relatives, friends, and neighbors will lend a helping hand to help the family tide over the difficulties. Even so, it does not mean that the ancients had a better spirit of sacrifice and a better moral character.
It's just that at that time, there was a lack of materials, information was blocked, and poverty caused every family and individual to be unable to live independently, so there was the idea of relatives and friends supporting each other and supporting each other. It's time to keep everyone connected throughout the year. That's why in ancient times, people attached so much importance to the Xiang people. When he was young, every year he was with a distant relative, celebrating together, celebrating together, even if he was bullied, he would unite. Both have the same blood in their bodies to do this.
By this time, the children were strangers to their cousins, let alone cousins. Without basic communication, their patriarch will gradually lose the right to speak, a way of thinking unique to young people who have grown up in the information age, and who rarely have the opportunity to solve their own problems in their own way. These teenagers may still respect them, but they will definitely not bow to them again.
For young people who advocate fairness, these things will sooner or later be forgotten, forgotten in a snowy Chinese New Year's Eve. Although we have abandoned the dregs, we have also lost our childhood home.