Krylov said: "The reality is this shore, the ideal is the other shore, separated by a rushing river, and action is a bridge over the river." ”
In the emotional world, sweet words are indispensable, two people who are in love, if they just listen to each other's verbal promises, and believe each other's words just by saying something, there is always an element of adventure in it, and it is more important for us to look at each other's behavior.
1. Judge whether that person truly loves you, and see whether his verbal concern is translated into action. Good friend Chunhua is a simple girl, she always hangs her boyfriend on her lips, my boyfriend said that he would call him ** when it rains, and he came to pick me up. One day, it was really raining heavily, but he said that he couldn't leave receiving customers, so he asked Chunhua to take a taxi and go home by himself. It was really hard to wait for the car on a rainy day, and it took Chunhua an hour and a half to get home. No matter how simple she is, she knows that in fact, her boyfriend doesn't care about her as much as he says verbally.
2. Judge whether that person truly loves you and see if he has fulfilled his promise. Xiaoxi went to Lukfook with me one day to see the necklace, I chose a thinner O-shaped chain with a jade pendant for myself, and she said to me with a happy face: "Look, that diamond ring, it's very beautiful, right?" I look good in it, and my husband said he would give it to me when I had my birthday. ”
At her birthday party that year, I saw that her husband just gave her a bouquet of roses. The next day, she complained: "My husband's words don't count again, he said that he gave me a diamond ring on his birthday, and he also received the bonus, and it's not that he can't afford it, it's true." A look of chagrin and disappointment.
3. Judge whether that person truly loves you, and see whether he has a strong sense of boundary with the opposite sex. All two people who love each other need each other to be their only one and treat this relationship loyally. Qing Qiao likes to play mahjong very much, she is in love with Shanshi on the surface, behind the scenes, all our girlfriends know that she and Liwei are a couple. We are often arranged to be with her, and occasionally we receive ** from Shanshi inadvertently, and we are all used to helping her cover up.
Until one day, when Shanshi was sending customers into the hotel, he accidentally saw her holding Liwei's hand intimately, and the two of them were checking in to the hotel's hourly room together. The usual pseudo-affection suddenly disappeared. Although it is said that life in the world depends on acting skills, no matter how skilled the acting skills are, they can't hide the truth.
In the adult world, the workplace and survival have used up 80% of our energy, and the remaining 20% of our lives, I hope we can all spend happily in a real, relaxed, and consistent love life.