In the fast-paced, high-pressure modern society, a phenomenon is gradually becoming apparent: more and more people are hesitant and even fearful about marriage and childbearing. This kind of psychology of "fear of marriage and childbearing" has become the tacit consensus of many young people. So, what is the reason for this phenomenon?
First of all, economic pressure is one of the important reasons for fear of marriage and childbirth. As housing prices and the cost of living continue**, many young people feel they are not yet on their feet, let alone taking on the financial responsibilities of their families and children. They worry that they don't have the financial means to cope with the challenges of marriage and childbearing.
Secondly, the change of social concepts is also affecting people's concept of marriage and childbearing. In the past, "starting a family and passing on the family lineage" was seen as an important milestone in life, but now, more people are pursuing personal growth and career development. They believe that marriage and childbearing are no longer an inevitable choice in life, but a decision that can be made according to personal wishes and actual circumstances.
In addition, the uncertainty of marriage and parenting itself is also one of the reasons for the fear of marriage and childbirth. Some people worry that they will not be able to handle the various problems in their marriage or that they will not be able to be a good parent. This fear and anxiety about the unknown makes them shy away from marriage and childbearing.
However, fear of marriage and childbearing does not mean a complete rejection of marriage and childbearing. We should look at this phenomenon with a more open and understanding attitude. Everyone has their own life trajectory and choices, whether they choose to enter marriage or choose to live independently, they should be respected and understood.
At the same time, society should also create a more relaxed and conducive environment for young people, reduce their financial pressure, and provide more support and assistance. Only in this way can we let more people bravely get out of the "siege" and embrace their own happy life.