There can be a variety of reasons why a man doesn't say a breakup directly, here are some common possibilities:
1.*Avoid conflict**: He may be afraid that a direct breakup will lead to a heated argument or conflict, so he chooses to take an indirect approach.
2.*Guilt**: He may feel guilty or guilty about the breakup and is afraid that speaking out directly will hurt the other person's feelings.
3.*Sense of Certainty**: He himself may not be too sure about the decision to break up, or he may still be thinking and hesitating.
4.*Avoid Responsibility**: Not saying the breakup directly may make him feel that he can avoid taking on clear responsibilities and consequences.
5.*Protect the other person**: He may think that gradually distancing or hinting at a breakup will hurt the other person less.
6.*Social Pressure**: He may be worried that he will be judged or pressured by those around him if he says the breakup directly.
7.*Leaving Hope**: He may want to leave some possibility or hope for the relationship, rather than severing it completely.
8.*Hard to say**: Sometimes, even if you have the idea of breaking up, it can be difficult to find the right time and way to express it.
However, not saying the breakup directly is not necessarily a healthy or responsible way to do it, which can lead to confusion and pain for the other person. In any relationship, open and direct communication is very important.