The two of us are very nice, so sometimes I eat out and often buy him back to eat. But one time my buddy with a very low EQ made me angry enough. One day at noon, I went out on errands, and by the way, I bought back the lunch meal, which was the most famous round long bao in a steamed bun shop.
When I got the Yuanlong bag back, he told me that he had finished eating, and before I could say anything, he was holding the round basket. Just shouting in our office.
Who eats long bao?
When my colleagues heard him shout, they all came to eat this famous bun, which made me angry. That's the Yuanlong bun of donkey meat that I bought for 60 yuan, think about it, this person with no emotional intelligence will really have to be careful next time.
Love to spread rumors from colleagues
I once met an eldest sister in the office, especially like to talk about the gossip of colleagues, down to the staff to the CEO, she can always have different gossip in the rumor, and most of them add oil and vinegar to her imagination processing, female colleagues and leaders go out to run errands, it is a normal thing, through her mouth will make people feel mysterious, imaginative.
After a long time, everyone understands her style of acting, and some colleagues are cheated by her, and they are afraid that if they don't pay attention to it, they will become gossip in her mouth, so they have always stayed away from her.
Blindly and gullible
In the same company, there is a new college student who has just graduated and doesn't have much experience. As soon as I joined our company, I was cheated by the eldest sister in front. She just joined the company, the eldest sister is very good to her, shush the cold and ask for warmth, and take the initiative to make an appointment with her at lunchtime, she may feel very warm, so she listens to the eldest sister in everything, like a confidant big sister.
Once I went out with my eldest sister to run errands, and the key information was leaked, which caused the customer to be dissatisfied. After coming back, the eldest sister hurriedly found the leader and said that she had reminded the new colleague to bring the information, and repeatedly explained, but the new colleague still forgot, and asked the leader to forgive the newcomer and push all the responsibilities away.
In the workplace, there are many expressions of low emotional intelligence, some think they are heroes of the world, are used as guns by colleagues, and come forward to fight for some interests with the boss, which makes the boss unhappy. I don't know how to empathize, I just do what I want to do, and I don't think about the feelings of others when I want to say anything. Love to take advantage of colleagues, provoke colleagues to dislike and many other situations.
The workplace is like a battlefield, and sometimes emotional intelligence also determines one's success or failure and promotion path.