In the original work of "Celebrating More Than Years", the relationship between Ye Qingmei and Emperor Qing is complex and delicate. Ye Qingmei was reluctant to enter the palace and did not want to admit that she was Emperor Qing's woman, which contained her indifference to power and court life. And although Emperor Qing keeps telling his love for Ye Qingmei, he can get rid of his lover without hesitation, this behavior reveals his desire for power and ruthlessness.
They have a son, Fan Xian, but this child is not the bond of their feelings. On the contrary, they have children more for the purpose of proving their existence. And when Emperor Qing ordered the extermination of the Taiping Courtyard, he did not leave a way for the child and the child's biological mother to live, which shows his ruthlessness.
In my opinion, from the moment Ye Qingmei decided to help Emperor Qing's family, their relationship has been unbalanced. Ye Qingmei fell in love with Emperor Qing, the handsome, talented, and restrained young prince of Cheng. She had a good impression of Emperor Qing when he was still an unpopular prince, so she began to plan for Emperor Qing's family and lay the foundation for her career. Ye Qingmei successfully helped Emperor Qing ascend to the throne and get rid of those who threatened his father. However, Emperor Qing's indifferent and ruthless attitude towards Ye Qingmei eventually led to the breakdown of their relationship. In the battle for Emperor Qing's succession, Ye Qingmei's wisdom and hard work enabled him to successfully ascend to the throne of the crown prince, and then received the support of the entire dynasty. Ye Qingmei used his talents to establish an inner library and help Emperor Qing change and shape the pattern of the entire world. In this seemingly calm process, Ye Qingmei felt extremely satisfied and relieved.
However, she failed to perceive the undercurrent that lurked beneath the surface. Before Ye Qingmei appeared, the life of Emperor Qing and the entire Chengwang Mansion was in a state of peace. Emperor Qing, a gifted and intelligent figure, is content with the status quo and enjoys the idle life of a son. The appearance of Ye Qingmei and the enthusiasm and expectation she brought made Emperor Qing deviate from his originally stable life trajectory. As Emperor Qing's fate was changed by Ye Qingmei, he gradually became no longer satisfied with a stable life, but longed for greater power. Ye Qingmei, who once helped him gain power, has now become an obstacle in his way forward. Emperor Qing chose to take action, which showed his ruthlessness. In this process, Ye Qingmei also needs to bear part of the responsibility. Love should accept the other person as he is, not try to change him to be the person we want him to be. If we support and encourage him to work towards change, of course it is possible, but he should not be forced to change.
Like Emperor Qing, he didn't have too much ambition originally, but Ye Qingmei painted a blueprint for him for the future. As a result, Emperor Qing's dream came true, but Ye Qingmei lost everything she cherished. Even for ordinary people, if we force our partner to make changes, whether they want to or not, it can lead to arguments and resentment. And once the balance of the relationship is out of balance, it is easy to turn from favor to hatred. This is the wisdom of the older generation, reminding us to cherish our relationships with others and to respect and understand their feelings and choices. When you give a lot of help to others, they tend to get used to it, and even get angry when you reduce your help one day. Ye Qingmei was blamed by him for giving Emperor Qing too much help. When Ye Qingmei and Wuzhu fled from the temple, they took with them several excellent **. She gave these ** to Kuhe, Sigu Sword and others, and one of them was particularly powerful, called Domineering True Qi.
Emperor Qing got this **, and he was very happy at first, but as his cultivation deepened, he encountered a dangerous level. He didn't know how to break through, and Fan Xian was also confused. They all tried to find *** for answers, Emperor Qing found Ye Qingmei, and Fan Xian found Wuzhu. Although they tried their best to help, they were unable to provide exact help because they had not practiced Domineering True Qi themselves. Fan Xian understood Wuzhu's kindness, and did not delve into Wuzhu's purpose for giving him this **. However, Emperor Qing had a different idea. He successfully broke through the difficulties after going through the ordeal, but he began to doubt the purpose behind Ye Qingmei's teaching of this **. Many years later, he still said to Chen Pingping: "What does she want to do when she passes on this deadly trick to me?
She wants to take me as a key point, and wants me to listen to her and answer her for the rest of my life. "How ridiculous it sounds. Ye Qingmei has paid a lot for Emperor Qing, but he has never been satisfied, and even doubts her intentions. As Emperor Qing's desire for power increased, his suspicion of Ye Qingmei became more and more serious. What was once respect and reliance turned into suspicion and vigilance. When the Queen Mother proposed to get rid of Ye Qingmei, Emperor Qing did not refuse, but actively participated in it. He showed no mercy even to his own children. After the showdown with Fan Xian, Emperor Qing said frankly: In the year of the Taiping Villa Change, I never believed that you could survive. Tiger, although fierce, never eats children, but Emperor Qing is ruthless to this point, it is really sad. In a person's life, there are always many changes, good and bad are intertwined, and the direction is difficult to determine.
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Emperor Qing and Ye Qingmei is the best example, when the two first met, Emperor Qing was content with the status quo, Ye Qingmei embraced the world, and met each other like golden wind and jade dew, and seemed to be happy for a while. However, if it weren't for Ye Qingmei's strong desire to change Emperor Qing's fate and not give too many gifts, maybe she and Emperor Qing would not have become acquainted, and Ye Qingmei's life would not be so short. Ye Qingmei's experience teaches us that human transformation should be based on inner change. We may be able to have a positive impact on the lives of others, but it is too much to try to change the trajectory of others' lives.