Every Chinese New Year, there are many blind dates.
After all, it's all on holiday, after all, it's all time, after all, it's all home.
Some of them want to go to the same place by themselves, they really want to find a partner quickly, build a family, and they want to work together with someone to make themselves no longer so boring and empty.
Some of them are arranged and forced by the people in the family, and young people must be allowed to seize this time.
No matter what the case is, since you have chosen a blind date, you will naturally encounter a lot of confusion.
In this regard, just go on a blind date.
Go with the flow and see what the results are.
The mentality is ordinary, depending on the specific person.
It may be that in the past, you have had a very bad experience, you have met the opposite sex very badly, and you have been very hurt in a relationship.
Or you have had a very bad blind date experience, and the blind date you met is really strange.
In any case, there is no need to deny all the opposite sex because of this, or even just go on a blind date with a very bad attitude.
A person can only represent a person, and the experience can only represent that relationship, not that all people are bad, all feelings are not good, and you must go on a blind date with a correct attitude.
Every time, just be positive, look at the specific other party every time, and identify the one in front of you.
It's really inappropriate, don't force it.
Of course, it's not easy to meet someone who feels good and has a good impression of each other.
If you talk once, you feel that you are not a person all the way, and when you meet, you will find that it is really out of tune, and you are very dissatisfied.
It's no big deal, no matter who introduced it, you have the right to refuse.
You don't have to be embarrassed to refuse, you don't always have to wait for the other party to refuse, and you don't always have to think about using cold treatment to make the other party automatically disengage.
Be brave and straightforward, just say it politely and clearly, and wish the other party to find the right person as soon as possible.
The distance is far away, and it is not necessary to deny it too quickly.
During the Chinese New Year, young people are on the move, so the blind date may not work in the same place.
This point may make you mind the comparison.
In fact, if you feel that a person is not bad, there is no need to directly deny it because of this.
As long as they have each other's hearts and are not in one place, it may not be much of a problem, sometimes, one party may also have plans to change cities, and sometimes, they may want to return to their hometown.
A good opportunity, don't give up easily, communicate well first, maybe it's pretty good.
I feel like I can, so I can touch it well.
Although blind dates are more impetuous, many people are looking at a mountain high, but there are always people who are more sincere.
If you meet someone who thinks it's good, don't miss it easily, just take the initiative to get closer.
Go and fight for a possibility for yourself, see what kind of attitude the other party has, and whether you are willing to repay your sincerity.
Don't always wait for the other party's initiative, feel that the other party is not active, then why should you take the initiative, such a mentality is easy to let yourself miss a lot of possibilities, a lot of opportunities.
Of course, you have to control your own life and take the initiative to try it yourself, which is not ashamed, and it will only be easier to succeed.
Don't be too quick to decide, pay attention to your money.
I will also meet some people who seem to be very anxious when they go on a blind date, and they don't know your name yet, they don't know your situation at all, and they don't know your personality, and they can talk to you about marriage.
Such people, of course, should be careful, no matter what, don't be too anxious, don't be too quick to set anyone.
Let's talk about it after understanding it clearly, and then talk about it after getting along for a while.
In contact with the blind date, investment is a must, at the beginning, you don't have to invest too much, but don't be too cold.
Next, you should spend what you should spend, but you should also pay attention to anti-deception, don't just stupidly empty yourself casually.
Give the introducer and tell me about the results.
Perhaps not every introducer is well-intentioned and is serious about the introduction.
However, in general, there is no need to tear the skin, it is still necessary to maintain the appearance of friendliness.
If someone introduces something that is too unreliable, just skip it directly, don't doubt yourself, and then tell the introducer that you can appropriately hint at your own thoughts and euphemistically express the introducer's excess.
If the introducer's introduction is okay, but it is not suitable, then you must give the introducer good feedback.
The introducer often wants to know the result, whether it is successful or not, it should be said.
The Chinese New Year is not too long, but it doesn't have to be that you must not meet it.
Maybe sometime, there will be a reunion after a long absence, and there will be a heartbeat.
Treat it with a normal heart, hoping to meet a good person, even if you don't have it, you don't have to think so much.
This kind of thing, in fact, is touching, I don't know which time it can be encountered, but I still have to keep on the road, keep going on, and always look forward to this time.
Blind dates are always criticized and have many drawbacks, but it is undeniable that many people do find a partner through blind dates and get married.
It's okay, it's relatively happy, it's not worse than free love.
No matter how you know each other, after all, it depends on your own vision and choice, and on yourself and the other person.
Text: Tan Meng.
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