Loving someone is: you know that she has many shortcomings, and sometimes you can't stand her, but you still want to be with her in the future.
Love, one of the most complex and mysterious human emotions, often leaves us unable to fully express in words. And in this process, we will find that true love is not always sweet and perfect, it also contains all kinds of challenges and run-ins.
When we fall in love with someone, we tend to be deeply attracted to certain qualities in the other person. These traits may include a beautiful appearance, a gentle disposition, a brilliant mind, or a unique personality. We are so attracted to these traits that at the stage of first acquaintance, we can often only see the good in the other person and ignore the possible shortcomings of the other person.
However, as time goes on, as our relationship with the other person deepens, we gradually discover some imperfections in the other person. These shortcomings can be some small habits, some irrational behavior, some overly self-centered attitudes. When we discover these shortcomings, we may feel disappointed, confused, or even want to give up on the relationship.
However, true love is not based solely on the merits of the other person. When we truly love someone, we accept all of them, including those imperfections. We try to understand the other person's behavior, to accept the other person's shortcomings, and to help the other person correct the mistakes that may affect the relationship.
This is because true love is not only about the strengths of the other person, but also about our willingness to face the challenges and difficulties of life with the other person. True love is about our willingness to grow with each other, to become stronger and more mature together.
Therefore, when we know that the other person has many shortcomings, and even sometimes we can't stand each other, but we still think that we want to go on with each other in the future, then it means that we have fallen deeply in love with each other. And this kind of love is based on acceptance and understanding of the other person.
Because we all understand that true love is not all smooth sailing. It requires us to tolerate, to understand, to give. Only in this way can we go further and more firmly on the road of love.