When she was two years old, she loved throwing things. throwing all kinds of cars to the ground; When looking at the album, take the books off the cabinet one by one and throw them away; When eating, drop spoons and bowls off the table; When an adult was accompanied, he suddenly took something from his side and threw it at him.
Not only is the family messy, but Ya Ya's mother is also easy to get hurt, every time she talks to him, she plays the piano to the cow, and the baby has no reaction at all. In fact, when the baby throws things, there are many benefits, he is exploring the world, developing intelligence, and improving his motor ability.
There are many benefits to throwing things for your baby.
Develop intelligence. This is very common in 2-year-old babies, who are there when they throw thingsDevelop intelligence. When babies throw things, they observe how things fall and the sounds, and in this way they observe the connections between things and recognize their surroundings.
Work on athletic skills.
Throwing things is a babySensitive period for small handsThe performance, while throwing with his hands, shows that they are controlling their hands and wrists, and the process of throwing things repeatedly is the process of exercising their athletic ability. At the same time, the 2-year-old baby also enteredAction-sensitive periodwithSpace-sensitive periodWhen throwing objects, judge the size of your environment.
Montessori proposed:Exercise can enhance physical fitness, and more importantly, it plays a vital role in the development of mental quality.
Explore the environment.
Child psychologist Pia has found through a large number of studiesChildren exercise their cognitive abilities through intuitive perception and practical operation.
When the baby finds that two objects can be separated from each other, he will like to throw objects and feel that the object is an object, and I am my feeling. Especially when the items are falling, there will be different sounds, such as the "knock" sound of the car falling, the "clanging" sound of the tableware falling to the ground, and the "** sound" of the book falling to the ground, some of these sounds are crisp, some are heavy, and different sounds will stimulate their ability to explore, exercise their divergent thinking, stimulate their curiosity, and improve their creativity.
Express feelings
Babies throw things when they are happy or upset. Some children don't like the toys in their hands and will throw them away; Sometimes I feel that I am not understood, and when I want to find my mother but I am ignored, I will throw things and make a noise to attract the attention of adults; When the baby is happy, he will also throw things to let everyone know his new skills.
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Understanding the baby and satisfying the baby.
Babies throwing things is a physical and psychological need, and they get psychological satisfaction, physical development, and intellectual development by throwing things. Therefore, when you encounter the baby throwing, you can prepare appropriatelyPlush, rubber, plastic and other toys that are not easily damaged.
Don't give him a strict ban or tell him "can't throw it" or "it's bad behavior for you to do this". A 2-year-old baby is in his first rebellious period, and the more you don't let him do it, the more he will have to do it. For children, a strict prohibition is a reminder to do it.
Don't pick up items right away.
When the baby is throwing something, if the adult picks it up quickly, it will make him mistake it for a game and play more energetically. If you are patient enough, you can play the game of throwing and picking up, and if you lack patience, then you can pick it up again after a while.
Teach your baby the right way to treat things.
You can plan a designated area for your babyLet them throw as many items as they like, such as sandbags, balloons, rubber products, etc., and tell him that fragile and explosive items and food are not to be littered.
Appropriately increase throwing parent-child games.
Appropriately increase the throwing class can take the baby to tidy up the room togetherThrow the thrown toys into the toy cabinet one by oneThe baby can not only hear the sound of falling, exercise the ability to throw things, as well as the ability of hand-eye coordination, and can also develop a good habit of placing toys by themselves after playing.