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The parents in the class group posted their children's grades in the class group after learning about their children's final grades. Paiga's mother was the first to speak, unhappy with her child's grades and questioned if the teacher had made a mistake. She thinks that her child usually does well in the exam, but why did her score suddenly drop this time. She thinks that it may be that the language test is out of the curriculum, and she has found a reasonable reason for her child's grades.
Jiayi's mother was more satisfied with her child's grades, and she sent her child's report card to the group, showing a sense of pride and joy. Language 865, Mathematics 935, 96 in English, such a score makes her satisfied with the child.
However, just when everyone breathed a sigh of relief, Junhao's mother was not to be outdone, and she also posted her child's results. Junhao is a member of the study committee in the class, and his grades have always been good. At this time, Zihan's mother, the representative of the Chinese class in the class, couldn't bear to be surpassed, and immediately posted her child's results. This atmosphere of competition spread rapidly, and the class leader Xiaoxuan's mother also hurriedly posted her results, and her child scored full marks in mathematics. These mothers show off their children's grades to each other in the group, without taking into account the feelings of other parents and children. At this time, the head teacher realized that something was wrong and quickly issued a notice: it is forbidden to discuss the results in the class group, and the score check channel has been closed, please chat with me directly.
Why are parents so keen to show off their children's grades? There may be several reasons: First, some parents take their children's grades as a reflection and proof of their own education style, and they believe that only their children's good grades can show their excellence and success in education. Secondly, parents also hope to gain a sense of victory and satisfaction by comparing themselves with other parents, and increase their self-confidence. In addition, some parents may be anxious and want to show their children's grades to prove their and their children's hard work and dedication to learning. Finally, the popularity of social ** has also had a certain impact on parents' children's grades, they have been affected by others' behavior, and in the class group, they also hope to get more attention and praise by showing off.
However, parents' excessive pursuit of performance and competition has no positive impact on children's development and growth. The grades in primary school do not completely determine a child's future, let alone reflect all of a child's abilities and talents. Your child's learning process should be positive and enjoyable, not overly stressful in pursuit of high grades. Parents should pay attention to the comprehensive development of their children, cultivate their hobbies and other skills, and let them develop holistically.
As a parent with children, I have also been affected by this phenomenon of showing off my grades. After the child's grades came out, I couldn't help but want to show the child's results in the class group, so that more people could know his progress and efforts. However, after reflection, I found that such behavior does not have any substantive meaning and does not help the child's development much. Children's grades are only a part of their learning process, and more importantly, they should cultivate their learning ability and comprehensive quality.
Therefore, I decided to change my attitude and behavior. No longer post children's grades in class groups and social **, but pay more attention to cultivating children's hobbies and other abilities. I will respect my children's choices and guide them to strive for excellence, rather than obsessing with high scores. Allowing children to grow up in a healthy and relaxed learning atmosphere, and cultivating their self-confidence and independent thinking ability, is a truly meaningful education.
In short, parents posting their children's grades in the class group, although it may be well-intentioned, can easily trigger an atmosphere of competition and anxiety. We should realize that a child's performance is not the only criterion for judging a child's success, but more importantly, it is more important to cultivate a healthy, positive attitude and all-round development. As parents, we should provide our children with a relaxed and tolerant environment for growth, pay attention to their comprehensive quality, and teach them to correctly view the significance of grades and success. In this way, children can be raised who are truly competitive and adaptable.
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