The age of 50 is a watershed in the lives of many ordinary people, and the state at the age of 50 is determined by the factors before the age of 50.
There are many articles teaching you not to regret, regret is really useless, but if you want not to regret it, it is almost impossible, people have emotions, and emotions always need to be vented, otherwise it will be hidden in the heart for a long time, and it will also be harmful to health.
Since regret is not a good thing, we still have to solve the problem at the root.
At the age of fifty, the first thing that is most likely to regret is your career. A good career can not only earn money, but also achieve oneself in many ways.
Men are afraid of getting into the wrong business, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man. Occupation is also wealth, it is the foundation of everything we do.
If a person wants to choose the right career, he also needs a lot of conditions, internal and external factors, whether to learn a technology, or to do marketing, whether to be an official or a businessman. Many people choose their first career often passively, maybe they don't like this profession, but they also have to do it, such as delivering food and working as a general worker in a factory.
I am now a project manager, or contractor, and I have a plasterer under me, a master who is responsible for tiling, and he once told me the story of his son who learned to lay bricks from him.
His son graduated from high school and was admitted to an ordinary university that did not enter the stream, and his major was not very good, whether to go or not, their whole family was very entangled, and the father finally let his son make his own decision, you go to college, and the family will pay for you, if you don't want to go, just follow me to lay bricks and learn a craft of eating.
The child followed his father to the construction site to go to school for a day, and was very resistant at first, he felt that it was a waste of the country's talents to let himself do such work, but this child was quite wise, cried on the construction site, decisively gave up the opportunity to go to college, followed his father to learn to lay bricks, within a few years the craft was very good, and he earned some money, built a new house through his own efforts, and married a wife.
It turns out that this child is right, if he goes to school, even if he gets a diploma and goes outside to fool around, maybe it will not be better, there are many such examples.
Occupation can easily affect a person's fate, in this regard girls are relatively better, if girls want to change their fate in many ways, there are many opportunities, this advantage will increase with age and social changes more and more obvious.
The most important place for boys is only a few steps, once they make a mistake, it is difficult to correct them, and each profession takes us a long time to run.
In employment, many people can't see the future development clearly, lack of vision, and more importantly, they can't see themselves clearly, and they don't have a clearer understanding of their own character, potential, advantages and shortcomings, which is the most troublesome.
Choosing a career is a complex technique that requires competence, attitude and approach.
The second thing that is most likely to regret at the age of 50 is that you don't save money and don't know how to manage your money. When people reach the age of fifty, their bodies begin to decline, and aging slowly shows, and this aging is more manifested in the spirit, and they begin to regret and begin to have awe, which can also be said to be a kind of maturity, in fact, maturity is our young crematorium, it is a good thing, and it is more of a bad thing.
The ability to earn money is important, but the ability to save money is more important, making money is the process, but saving money is the result, if we carefully observe the people around us, the easiest to succeed is not the people who are very generous on the surface, but those who are looked down upon, stingy people, generous people often love face, the pursuit of the external, but also the simplest and purest people, and those who seem stingy are often the pursuit of the internal, scheming, good at planning.
Therefore, when we are young, we must first learn to save money, develop good saving habits, every time we earn a sum of money, we must think about what to do first, what to do later, the attitude of doing things is important, the method is also important, but the order is more important, saving money, repaying debts, consumption, investment should be in strict order.
The third thing that is most likely to regret at the age of fifty is marriage, either you have not found a wife, and you live a chic life where you can feed the whole family without hunger, or the family is not running well, and you have resumed your single life, among all things, the most important thing is marriage, it is the easiest to achieve yourself, and it is also the easiest to destroy yourself, whether you can better control marriage is also a necessary ability for modern people, of course, the current society has moved towards diversification, and marriage is not the only way of life.
It's okay not to get married, but you have to have more conditions, get married and have the trouble of getting married, and if you don't get married, you have the pain of not getting married, it seems that it's easy not to get married, but in fact the trouble of not getting married is greater, of course, this kind of trouble is more of an experience in the second half of your life, if a person can stay young forever, then there is no need to get married at all.
The fourth thing that is most likely to regret at the age of 50 is that you have never faced your parents seriously, and you have not fulfilled your filial piety.
When we are young, our thinking is outward, and as long as we are fifty years old, our thinking is inward, we pay more attention to our inner world, and everything outside is not important at this time.
And parents are the most important part of our inner world, our parents are where we come from, our offspring are our go, parents answer us from **, our children answer us to go to**. One question remains: Who am I?
Fifty-year-old people's parents are either gone, or they are also on the verge of death, many people to fifty years old only to find that the most sorry is their parents, other things are still in time, but only filial piety, it has the shortest time limit, so when we are young, we must treat our parents well as soon as possible, filial piety is for our parents, more or to reduce our regret in the second half of our lives.